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    acerpcguy Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    May 17, 2012, 10:06 AM
    I love her but don't want to be with her?
    My girl friend and I started dating about 2 years ago. Before things were just perfect (in both our perspective). I would spend hours with her after I get done with my 10+ hours long days and it was amazing. Small fights and I would be crazy about cheering her up and what not, but those fights got so usual. We fought a lot about the most random things because "small things means a lot to her". She would break up with me and then we will get back together after a week. We have done this for almost 10 times. The reason I'm with her is because I care about her a lot, I think I still love her. However, I don't know if I can be with her. I don't see a future with her because no matter how hard I try, I don't think I can be on that pedestal again where she put me to. What should I do? We broke up last Saturday and she said some really rude things (left me a voicemail) and last night we got back together because I'm afraid she will do something really dumb and hurt herself and I can't let her do that. Things are weird right now and I don't know what to do. I think I might end up cheating on her because I am lost. I am 23 years old and I work full-time and I go to school full-time. Life is already hectic and I thought she would be helping me making things easier and help me make decisions, but I don't know anymore.
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    May 17, 2012, 10:24 AM
    Relationship has gone sour, break up with her, you analyzing this from the past, when you should be looking at the present. Things were one way once, now they have changed, as most things do, it is time to move on. Don't cheat, break up and go your separate ways, if she does something to herself, that is not on you, it is on her weak mind.

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