[Charlie2012]

I have been marriend for almost 2 years now and still learning the ropes of being married. I am a stay at home mom. It was recently my 10 month old baby's baptism which we had in another country where we could vacation at the same time, my husband and I invited a bunch of friends along for the trip including single friends where we vacationed together for 1 week. So at my daughter's baptism party which we shared with our family and friends, my girlfriend took a photo with her in the middle my husband on one side and his single guy cousin on the other side of her and my girlfrind told them both kiss her on her cheeks at the same time. I felt really upset about this and told my husband that it was inappropriate, her got mad and told me its my close friend and there was no wrong doing. Was I wrong to feel upset? Is this behaviour OK? I told my girlfriend I wasn't happy with this and both my girfriends told me there was nothing wrong with it and that I should relax. Desperately need advice.

[answerme_tender]

You need to talk to your friend. If your close enough to invite her on a family vacation then you should be close enough to openly tell her that what she did made you uncomfortable. That you realize she was just "having fun", but in future please do NOT include your husband in any kissing on cheek pictures. If she doesn't take your feelings into account and just gets upset then try reassuring her that you trust her and your husband, but for whatever reason you didn't feel right period. Hopefully she will accept your feelings and apologize and put this entire situation behind you. As for your husband, try to explain it the same way.

Good luck

[Fr_Chuck]

A kiss on a cheek is really nothing, and I don't understand getting upset.

But, you did not like it, and it was your friends, so you have the right to say you did not like it.