[nineteenmjrad]

Hi, me and my boyfriend have been going out about 8 months already. But I feel like we're slowly drifting away. He doesn't believe what I say anymore, he doesn't say I love you much anymore also. When we started we felt like we were destined to be together but as time flies we slowly started to drift away. We fight like everyday and night. How can I fix it before it ends? I don't want to lose him :(

[lrush22]

I am in the same situation..
I dated my boyfriend for about 11 months and then over one little thing we broke up and had a five month break. It was longer than we both wanted it to be, but in it was good because it made us realised why we wanted to be with each other. It was the most horriblest feeling breaking up with him.. I went through depression and changed into someone I'm not...

When we started dating we seems so in love and we were meant to be together.. but then when we started to drift apart I was worried and thought there was someone else.. was the worst feeling so I would check his phone... he was flirting with some girl for about two weeks.. then started seeing and hanging out with her and lying to me.

To be honest I believe maybe have a break for a weeek and play hard to get and make him realise what he has and if he doesn't realise and notice you play harder and harder.. he will soon notice and miss being with you. Then he will be the one coming after you.

After my break we got back together and when ever we fight he crys and says STOP because no knows what its like to lose someone you love. The feelings are ed!

It sounds like he is getting to comfortable in your relationship and has stop trying to impress you.

[nineteenmjrad]

Thanks lrush22

[talaniman]

When you argue instead of communicate, then you have no relationship, just a hopeful idea that isn't working. Step back, and take an honest look at how you are working together, or working apart. Takes a lot more than just feelings of meant to be, to get you to being TOGETHER.