[Catherinaeb]

Been in a exclusive relationship for 7 months. He is 57 I am 48. He has been divorced twice. Both wife's left him for another man. So I've been told. He's been single for over 10 yrs. He tells me he loves me and that I've made more progress gaining his trust than any other. He has 2 sons 17 & 22. They don't know I exist.

He hasn't told any of the people in his life about me. Not even the women friends he knowns. He does aerobatic air shows (hes a pilot) & doesn't invite me to any shows. So he is well known and has a lot of followers. We only see one another on Mondays because if our schedules. But it is possible to see one another more if we wanted. Which I have tried to do. We live about 24 miles apart.

When I've asked to see him more he has excuses like have to do maintenance on plane etc. I've talked to him about how it hurts me and I am concerned. He says be patient. My intuition tells me he has no intention of ever including me in his life.. Is it my imagination? Or is my feelings justified?

[talaniman]

7 months and only on Mondays?? Can you not find dates the other days of the week? He has a busy life he is very content, and comfortable with, and so should you, because things seem to be very casual at this point, and I see nothing changing for a while, so I would be very cautious with my hopes for this one.

Bet there is no agreement or timetable between you either, as patience can only go so far. Look out for yourself, and your own happiness. No high, unreasonable expectations for Mr. Monday Night!