[SH3STOL3MYH3ART]

Hello I am SH3STOL3MYH3ART:

This is how the story goes:

One day I was on a dating website and I received a message that I did not quite understand then I sent this female a message back to find out that she is straight. Well, we talked and then exchanged numbers and we started to have phone conversations and really learned a lot about one another and we really hit things off and before you knew it we begin to get serious although she was confused about the whole thing because she is straight and did I say married? Yes she is legally married... I was not aware that she was married at this time, we realized that we have a lot in common as far as music life family and all. To top this story off we are roughly 500 plus miles away from one another so yes after all this we are in a long distance relationship!! WOW I know right... LOL

Moving right along... We met face to face roughly 3 weeks or so later I drove to her we wanted to make sure that what we were feeling over the phone would be the same face to face, anyway it was even more passionate and we were even more connected in person then on the phone so it was definitely love at first sight and we knew that this was meant to be. Well after this first visit we came to the conclusion that this is what we really want so things became even more official then on the phone. Well, the morning that I was leaving to head back to my state she felt it was only right to let me know she was married she did not want me to get back to where I was from to let me know and I appreciated her for telling me, Well through all of this I decided to stay with her I had fallen in love with her and I could not change my feelings for her.

Anyway, I went back to see her the next month and we decided to get married to one another, we followed our hearts. Now you may ask the question of where is her husband in all this? Well, he is in prison at this time and he was not supposed to get out for a very long time but we just found out that he made parole and will be coming home around August or September of this year.

Now it gets good because I am married to her as well, as he is but the catch is this, I was planning on moving to her state but he will be there soon we are in love with each other I have met her family and she has met my family over the phone, neither family is aware that me and her have gotten married we are waiting to tell them after her divorce from her husband is final.

Well people I bet this is an interesting one huh? Do you think this relationship will work out between me and my straight married long

[Jake2008]

This is really hard to believe.

Have I got this right? You are gay, on a (I presume) gay online dating site, and a straight female messages you. Three weeks later, you meet, she cheats on her husband with you.

You have a second meeting, and decide to get married, while her husband is in prison. How did you manage that? Is it a legal marriage?

Why do you say she's straight?

Does she have children?

How do you handle a marriage to a person you barely know, that lives 500 miles away?

It is not legal to be married to two people at the same time.

In answer to your question, if this story is truthful, I highly doubt that your 'marriage' to her will work out. Her marriage to her husband probably won't work out either after this all comes to light, and he gets out of prison.

I think you've made a big mistake.

[odinn7]

This can't be real. You got married to a married woman... you're gay, she's straight... you live 500 miles apart and met twice. Come on now... really?

[Homegirl 50]

This make no since. You're not even legally married.
Will it work? I doubt it. You don't even know each other.

[Fr_Chuck]

First no, you are not married to her, your marriage would be illegal and not valid, and it also makes her a criminal and her ex can get her arrested for this marriage as soon as he is out of prison.

Next no this marriage of gay and straight will not work anyway.