[Monica11]

I'm so stresses out. My boyfriend messed up big time and I don't know what to do! Yesterday my boyfriend was kicked out by my brother out of our apartment and he went homeless, now everything's crumbling down and things are being said and the words are being played with. My family is now covering their asses and making it look like they had nothing to do with what happened. My boyfriend was kicked out of his family house and wanted to go homeless but my mom found out and said she is not goingto let that happen and offered for him to come stay with us. Note: he and I were together for three years and he lived with us but things got bad and he decided to go live back with his family and then this happened.
There's talk of him being sent back home and I'm just so confused and don't know what to think. I really do love him but all these things coming from loving him, is it worth it?

I admit, we fight and he slaps me when things get really bad but never does more then that.

Should I let him go?

[DoulaLC]

I admit, we fight and he slaps me when things get really bad but never does more then that.

Should I let him go?

Yes... let him go. He never does more than slap you?? Why in the world would you want to be with someone who would slap you? That is not love... not even close!

Count your blessings... your brother did you a big favor by kicking him out. I can tell you more would have happened if you were my daughter and he had been slapping you!

You deserve better... now you are free to find that from someone else. Don't ever let someone treat you that way... there is no excuse, ever.

[Monica11]

Well I made up my mind and decided to let him go, and if he does go to the Philippines, I hope it does change him for the better...