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    dannyisherenow Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    May 3, 2012, 01:24 PM
    I'm a guy and I'm insecure.
    I feel frustrated. I can't cope with how I look. I feel rather sad about what I look like, I feel ugly and get frustrated when I look myself in the mirror. I feel that I'm not good enough for anyone, I was afraid to actually get into a relationship. I am, was and I guess, will always be, one of the guys who won't feel if a complement is real.
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    May 3, 2012, 01:31 PM
    Ever set outside of walmart and just watch people going in, A hour or two makes me feel like a handsome stud. Funny Pictures at WalMart is an example of that.

    But if you don't like your looks, Try a new hair style, or even a new hair color ( men can do that too, I was red a few months ago, black after that, doing a shaved look today.

    Try changing the way you dress, try goth, try business professional, find YOU
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    May 3, 2012, 01:47 PM
    What are you like inside?
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    May 3, 2012, 02:14 PM
    Beauty is skin deep. There are a lot of people that will make you feel lower then low. If no one can see you for who you really are then it's there problem. Don't change to make people happy change to make yourself happy. Be daring, don't follow the crowd :)

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