[jennyss]

Me And my boyfriend have been together for three years off and on. We broke up for what I thought was for good, we both dated other people etc... The first two years together were good but the last was awful he treated me like crap and, but we both "loved" each other. It ended because he didn't know if he loved me anymore SO I BROKE it off.

Now we recently got back together, its been four months and its amazing he did a one sixty. . Everyone we know comments on how much he's changed... He said it took seeing me happy with someone else for him to realize he needed to treat me better. I was also a huge ***** to him and very demanding but the new him made me into a caring and patient girlfriend.. Now he says I'm perfect! Our relationship has never been better were each others best friends.

What I don't get is he doesn't tell me he loves me even though we've never been happier. If he said it before when we were miserable then why not now? Not only that but he doesn't even call me Baby? When I asked him about y he doesn't call me baby anymore he said he doesn't feel comfortable calling me that to give him time and said he wants to be very cautious with that and other important words like the "l"word..

Does he feel it just scared to say it? I never asked him if he loved me I asked him why he doesn't call me Baby?

[Bernty]

Just by him saying he wants to be cautious with that stuff means he does make sure you don't force it on him and have you ever thought of telling him you love him?

[talaniman]

It would appear that despite great strides you are becoming that same *****, and demanding female you were before. You just keep pushing for more and more, instead of being happy with the progress you have made.

Now you trip over words you need instead of enjoying the better treatment. Unreal! Stop pushing and enjoy what you are getting for now, and leave that insecure demanding stuff in the past where it belongs.

Stop demanding and listen to him for a change.