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Deckonsoul · Apr 30, 2012, 07:32 PM

Ok , I'm from Florida, and recently in college. Ok so to make long story short ill give u key things.. So I talked to this girl, she gave me a lot of signs of interest, played with her hair, rubbed her wrist , smiled, gave me eye contact while talking and laughrd at stupid jokes. I asked for her number at the worst time which I think is the reason why ahe didn't give it to me ( she smiled and said I don't give out my numbeer ) so I said OK... Talked to her two weeks after that. I gave her a bear with a little note , she posted it on Facebook, and well at that time I didn't have any "feelings" she was into me. So on fb I told her the bear was a sign of our friendship and if she knws that then cool we are on the same page, but I said that cause I didn't want to be hurt . So 2 months later I tried sending her messages ( like 4 times ) and she doesn't reply for **** !
Did she like me ? Why does she ignore me ? What shuld I do? If she didn't like me, why can't she act like my friend?

TimHathaway98 · Apr 30, 2012, 08:36 PM

The best thing to do right now is tell her you're sorry and you'd like to ask her why she is ignoring you... but you should wait a few days after you say sorry before you ask why she is ignoring you... she is probably freaked out by you keep trying to talk to her constantly... I hope this was helpful

Bernty · May 2, 2012, 12:10 AM

When she posted the bear on Facebook did she say anything or did anyone comment anything about it if so what?

Deckonsoul · May 2, 2012, 04:00 PM

Yeah she just said it was nice
But I think she doesn't like me because she said " the guys we are into dont it"... so she isn't into me... but why won't she reply to my messages? She just igbores me on fb

Bernty · May 2, 2012, 11:01 PM

Don't take this the wrong way cause it's not you trust me but …she's trying to get attention and tell all her friends that you won't leave her alone so she can day that she's hot **** I'd try not to talk to her for a while and try again in like 2 weeks and if she doesn't say anything then than that's the end of it hope that helps

Deckonsoul · May 3, 2012, 08:47 PM

The thing I don't undertand is why did she try to get my attention, the when I talked to her she gave mr A lot of signs of interest, gabe her the gift and was all happy and ****, and boom I tell her it was a friend thing, boom everything she goes downhill sheignores me

Bernty · May 8, 2012, 01:12 AM

Ya I don't know what it is with her some people are just difficult I guess. I say try doing the opposite of when she ignored you and she might talk to you

I wish · May 8, 2012, 08:33 AM

Sounds like she was trying to be friendly cause she had fun talking to you, but you interpreted her actions as romantic feelings for you. But her actions doesn't not necessarily mean that she feels the same way about you.

As for why she's ignoring you now, why did you disappear from her for so long as well? From your facts, you said that you only contacted her 2 months later? What did you do for 2 months? She might find a weird that you are messaging her out of nowhere.

Who knows what she's thinking, maybe she thought she gave you false hope at first and doesn't want to give you more false hope. Because it seems pretty clear that you interpreted her actions as liking you more than a friend when it seems like she only likes you as a friend.

The point is, she doesn't want to keep in touch with you and that's something that you have to accept. You can't force her to talk to you.