[bluesong]

My boyfriend and I have been together for about two years now and I've started to notice that things have changed. We haven't had sex in two months and we sleep in separate rooms now. He says its because he wants to watch TV and fall asleep which I understood at first but now this is an everyday thing. The only time I get to spend with him is when I'm asking him what he wants for dinner. I figured it was a space thing so I backed off with the sex thing and pretty much everything else. I assumed he would come around. I tried talking to him several times but he has a quick temper so I try not to bring it up often. He somehow usually makes me feel like the culprit and then I go along feeling depressed. It really bothers me because I have a few weeks left before I go home(I'm a student) and I want these last few weeks to be good. His excuse is that he's tired but he only works on weekends. I'm really frustrated with trying and ending up with nothing.

[Homegirl 50]

If you have tried to discuss this with him and it gets nowhere, you may need to re access the relationship. If a person refuses to talk to you or gets belligerent when you want to talk, there is nothing more you can or should do. It may be time to call it quits. It sounds like this may be what he wants but does not have the decency to say it.

[bladelinen]

Try asking him what s on his mind calmly for the last time... if he does not communicate with you after two years of being together... what can you expect many moreyears down the lane?