[Loverloves]

Hi I met a girl on an internet forum for MBA.We live in different cities.Because we had a common goal we were talking often on phone.But then I started liking her.Honestly speaking,I am not a guy who has been a lot around with girls and I told her that.We are talking every day in the beginning

She always tells me that I chatter a lot of (Nonsense?) She laughs at my jokes sometimes. But on the who she says that I talk a lot.
Sometimes when I call her , I just manage to talk to her for around 5 minutes before she says that she has to go to gym,which sounds like an exit strategy.She also doesn't answer my call when she is in the gym or when she is outside clubbing.Nor does she attempt to call me after returning home.She does call me after a couple of days.
Once when she didn't answer my call,my male ego caused me to call her 13 times before she finally picked up the phone and I hung up out of anger without saying anything.The next day she sounded angry on the phone and said she was travelling and told me that I should nt call her until she calls me.
She called me after 3 days to tell me that she was with her dad and could answer the phone.I apologized and she said that I shouldn't call her if ever she disconnects my call and said "I am sorry but thats how it "
So the next time I called her,I found her phone on wait.When her phone finally rang.she disconnected the call.The next day she called back ,but I didn't take her call.I haven't spoken to her since,thinking she might be taking me for granted.But I have been thinking of her ever since. Should I just stop trying to get her to like me.

[Homegirl 50]

Sounds like you have feeling for her that she does not have for you. Stop calling her altogether.

[odinn7]

Sounds like you are incredibly desperate and are making way more out of these phone calls than she is. I would say you are best to just let it go and stop calling her as she really doesn't seem interested. Get the hint, move on.

[Fr_Chuck]

Called her 17 times, surprised she is not getting a restraining order out for you. It is obvious that she is not interested and trying to tell you. You are pasting proper behavior and has harassed her.

[Loverloves]

13 times.But She said that she could nt pick up the call because she was sitting with her father.We have had telephone conversations after that episode too.But what I found vague was the delay in call-back or the duration of the conversations.If she were interested she would try to prolong the conversations and would try to call back in case of a missed call as soon as possible. She calls the other day.
Is the case beyond redemption.Is it the case that either a girl is interested or not . Can't things change ?

[Loverloves]

I wasn't aware that wooing a girl was like signing a trade agreement and there are dynamics involved .I am just a simple guy

[Homegirl 50]

Hey, if it ain't there, it ain't there. If the girl is not feeling you, she's not feeling you.

[Loverloves]

To hell with the whole love business