Hi Stacy6,
CurlyBen is correct... just to add, decide on another form of birth control. Withdrawal method will likely result in a pregnancy sooner or later and at 16 you know yourself that you aren't ready to have and raise a child. The withdrawal method takes knowing your body very well, good control, and is often not used correctly. This is why it is not considered a highly reliable form of birth control, especially for someone where an unplanned pregnancy would really be a problem.
Your boyfriend should always, always use a condom before any penetration at all. These too are often not used correctly. For example, he can not enter you for a while, then pull out to put a condom on just before ejaculation. This can be too late.
It would be wise if you also used a form of birth control yourself along with the condom to lessen the chances of an unplanned pregnancy.
Keep in mind, that no form of birth control will be 100% effective, so you will still have a chance of pregnancy occurring.
You may want to rethink the sex for now until you are in a better position to take those chances.
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