[Mamaz610]

Hello viewers


So I'm going to give it to you straight, me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other for a while now, since we started sleeping together we have not used any protection which is bad on both our parts but super bad on my part cause I should know better... he has been aiming and shooting his little soldiers inside me for the past 4 months and that means every time we have intercourse... now I'm 3 days late for my menstrual.. for the past 2 weeks I have been experiencing cramping. It was really bad in the right side of my body that lasted all of 20 minutes... then it went from being on the right side to be indirectly in the middle of my lower abdomen, and it lasted a couple days, thought nothing of it because I usually feel one sharp pain right before she comes down, but I was experiencing my cramps a week before she was suppose to come, I also went through I don't want to eat spells, full feelings, I had headaches all last week on the right side it came and went for those 5 days at a time I wasn't actually able to lie on my stomach without it feeling funny... my nipples have been sore for the whole 2 weeks... especially when they get hard they become even more sensitive never happens... I had a episode the other night where I was eating chicken.. and I had a nasty taste in my mouth causing me to gag... all of this and a negative pregnancy test...

I have been looking up a lot of pregnancy information... and only 25% of women have implantation bleeding not every women gets it, the changing color of the area around the nipple man I don't know what to look for they don't really give you too much information about that... as far as using the bathroom all the time... smh I use the bathroom all the time, but that could be for a number of reason drinking too much, stds sti's, bladder infections numerous things... I have had my period stop for a month before and it wasn't because of a pregnancy... I'm able to email my doctor back and forth so I emailed him today and he told me take another test on the 28 that's next week Saturday I don't want to take that long I want to know now right... is there a body out there that has experienced any of those symptoms above?. please and thank you for the advice.

[DoulaLC]

Your doctor is having you wait because it is not unusual for periods to be off now and then. Waiting longer would also allow levels of hcg, the hormone associated with pregnancy, to increase if you are pregnant. You certainly could try another test sooner if you can't stand the wait. Be sure to follow the directions carefully whenever you decide to test.

Since you haven't been using protection, treat yourself as though you are pregnant because sooner or later it is likely to happen. Make any lifestyle changes that you know would be healthy and start taking a daily prenatal vitamin or multivitamin with folic acid (most will have an ample amount). If you are pregnant, then of course you will start seeing an OB or midwife for prenatal care.

If you aren't pregnant, then do what you know you should have been doing all along and protect yourself. Four months of doing something you know you really shouldn't be doesn't sound like either of you would be too upset if you did happen to become pregnant. If you don't want to be pregnant, discuss with your doctor options that would work for you. This should include condoms for your boyfriend. Two forms of birth control will lessen the chances even more for an unplanned pregnancy.

Good luck... hope it turns out how you would like it to.