[mhayden53]

I have a black cat, and one night I was watching TV with the light on at 1:30 am to 2 am, the cat was lying next to me purring away too. Well she jerk her head at my bedroom window and jump up and sat at the edge of my bed looking at the window. She was like a statue won't move for nothing. Then she jump off my bed and keep eyeing my window and moving her head slow motion and jerk her head back at my window. Mind you my window is in the back yard area and nobody was in the back yard too. And no bugs. I took some pic of her doing all that and at my window too. This happen on April 2, 2012. On Tuesday April 10, 2012 I was sitting at my desk playing on the computer and I had some empty cans on it too. One of the cans tiped and wiggled by itself, I did thought it can be from my mouse cord but it was behind 2 or 3 cans from the one that moved. And if I did move it then more then one should have moved. Later that morning I went to my school and I had a bad incident at the bus stop too. So I think it was giving me a warning that day. What you people think it can be. Oh you the cat didn't move a muscle or made a sound. Also I keep hearing footsteps in my room when I'm alone in there too. So far it seems to be a good spirit/ghost.

[hauntinghelper]

Well, in regards to your last statement, the spirit world is almost never what it "seems". I can't say that everything you said means there is something paranormal going on. I kind of get the impression that you are automatically looking for that answer. Has anyone else in the home had an experience?

[mhayden53]

Well, in regards to your last statement, the spirit world is almost never what it "seems". I can't say that everything you said means there is something paranormal going on. I kind of get the impression that you are automatically looking for that answer. Has anyone else in the home had an experience?

Kind of, my 4 year old said something talk to her. It was middle of the night and she was in my room too. She said it wasn't me or the cat but didn't know who it was. She wasn't sleeping cause I woke her up and bring her to my room too. And also my other daughter seen a can move by itself and there were no wind at that time and the cat was watching the can moving too, stiff too.

[hauntinghelper]

Has this just started of the blue? Can you think of a reason for something like that to be in your home?

[mhayden53]

Has this just started out of the blue? Can you think of a reason for something like that to be in your home?

I had an experience back in almost 9 years ago but that happen the day after my grandmother had past away. It felt like someone tuck me in one night. But sometimes I hear footsteps and weird noises but never pay attention to it. So recently it started yes. Nothing is different here except me doing some life changes basiclly.

[mhayden53]

Back of my mind I think its my grandmother but don't know who it can be

[hauntinghelper]

If it's not too personal may I ask what sort of life changes you are dealing with right now?

[mhayden53]

Going back to school, trying to learn how to handle my adhd/bipolar child, and keeping me busy so I don't go into depression mode. Oh you making myself happy for once. Simple things I guess

[hauntinghelper]

No, those are life changing things to deal with that is for sure! Keeping busy isn't really something that would draw a spirit in to your life. Is the ADHD child the one that the spirit talks to?

[mhayden53]

No, it only talks to my youngest. She is for the adhd is going to be nine next month. It did disturb my oldest one night.

[hauntinghelper]

Have you tried anything to remove it yet? May I inquire of your religious background?

[mhayden53]

I haven't try anything cause it hasn't done anything to harm me or my girls. I'm catholic

[hauntinghelper]

Why wait until something goes bad?

[mhayden53]

Don't know, I don't think it will, I figure if it was harmfull it happen already. But it seems to warn me of the danger I was involve,I guess

[mhayden53]

Also I don't know where to go and who to see either

[mhayden53]

Ok I was think of something I notice about my cat. I only let her in my room and she does sleep with me on my bed, but lately she is acting kind of weird, like she is under my bed all the time or on my bed and she sleeps by the window after she saw something about two weeks ago. She always looking around my room too and be looking at the window most of the time or stare at me or past me. She will follow me around the house all the time now and she don't do that until that day. Tonight I was petting her on my bed and she was purring and looking around the room for a minute. I asked her you see my ghost (kind of joking with her too) and as soon as I said that she jerk her head at the window and my dresser and she will look at me and back at that direction again. Well I'm not scared of the situation about just curious on the whole thing. And the funny part is that the cat jumps off my bed and staring at me and waited couple minutes and she jump back on my bed for some attention. I know I look like or sound like I lost my mind but its getting to me little, more of wanting to know who is the spirit/ghost that is in my room. If its my closest family member or my friend they can stay but if it someone I have no ideal of or wants to harm me then I want it gone.

[hauntinghelper]

Sure, animals seem to be a lot more aware of spirits than people do... but I wouldn't use my cat as a ghost detector.

[mhayden53]

I know, its was just weird that I said that and she look at the window an dresser. Lol, I have another quick question back when I was 5 or 6 I had an out of body experience for couple days. It happen after I told my family I was raped. But that is years when it happen, but wanting to know can that be reason I'm having a spirit and my daughter told me she was touch by someone too but that was last year

[hauntinghelper]

Interesting that you bring that up. Traumas like that can actually open a door for unwanted spiritual encounters. How and why are sometimes hard to understand but I have heard of many cases where rape or abuse have let a demon into someone's life. While it is not your fault, it may be something you need to deal with.

I really think you would benefit from talking one on one with a Christian Counselor. This is up to you of course.

[mhayden53]

Thanks for the advise. I'll look for one around here don't know any.