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astoldbyP · Feb 22, 2012, 02:49 AM

Me and this guy at my school have been talking for like two months now. Everything was just great; you know like texting all the time and I would always come to his basketball games.But for the last week he's been acting shady like texting back late or sometimes not text back at all and he does't come to my locker anymore; also recently my friend had asked him if we still talked and he replied with "idfk".What should I do?

indya · Feb 22, 2012, 03:00 AM

Forget him. He's obviously lost interest. And there is nothing you can do about it. Save yourself from a lot of heart ache.

astoldbyP · Feb 22, 2012, 03:21 AM

Should I say something to him in school or just leave it alone?

indya · Feb 22, 2012, 03:26 AM

Just leave it alone. Did he tell you anything before suddenly stopping all contacts? You don't owe him an answer.

astoldbyP · Feb 22, 2012, 03:29 AM

No not at all. I don't understand how one day you can go from boo loving to not talking at all the next day.

indya · Feb 22, 2012, 05:01 AM

I know it may sound harsh, but maybe he's just bored of you, or found someone else more interesting. The fact that he answered your friend's question with a "idfk" itself show's how much he actually 'cared' about you.

Don't worry girl, there will a others who will love and respect you better than this one. Just don't waste time on this guy.

astoldbyP · Feb 22, 2012, 05:14 AM

Thanks so much!

astoldbyP · Apr 15, 2012, 08:29 PM

My ex keeps asking about me but he haves a girlfriend that he's so called "in love" with and anytime I see him he tries to avoid looking at me and I know for a fact he still have some type of love/feelings for me because anytime he sees my cousin he always asks for me.By the way all his friends are disappointed that we're not together because his new girlfriend is pulling him away from his friends, so what does this mean?

spunkymonkey213 · Apr 15, 2012, 08:39 PM

Ok this is VERY confusing but um... Maybe he is wanting someone to be with that won't pull him away from his friends??

astoldbyP · Apr 15, 2012, 08:51 PM

Hmm I have no clue, should I just wait over time because I seem to not be over him yet?

talaniman · Apr 15, 2012, 09:55 PM

You should get over him, and leave him alone. He has some one new.

Enigma1999 · Apr 15, 2012, 10:18 PM

Also, don't think that there is anything wrong with you, because it's not you, it's him. He is the one with issues. I think it was rude of him to say "idfk" to your friend. It shows a lack of respect for not only you, but your friend.

Unfortunately this probably won't be the last guy who does this to you... Honey, I'm older than you, and I still have the "hot one minute, cold the next" from men.

I'm not saying ALL guys are like this, just some. So if this happens again, just remember not to get down on yourself.

As for this guy... if he tries to speak to you, I would say, "idfk"...

Move on.

Good luck.

Homegirl 50 · Apr 16, 2012, 04:16 AM

It means nothing! Is this the same guy who was so rude? He has a girl friend so you need to get over it and move on. If this guy wanted to be with you he would but he sounds pretty cold so you are better off.