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    sassybarbi1989 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 10, 2012, 09:39 AM
    I want to leave but he won't have it
    I have been dating this guy for about 7 months now, and things were great at first. Until I ended up in a bad situation where I had to go and live with a male friend, and he didn't trust that, so we broke up. During this time we were still seeing each other. He went home for holidays and came back, and I found out he had been seeing someone else, and hiding it from me.

    I got really mad at him and he begged me to still be with him so I did. He and the other girl have been having problems but he just can't seem to let her go and be with just me. I tell him I am going to leave him but he keeps saying just give him time to figure things out, but I find myself not caring about him as much as I use to and I just want to get out of this situation.

    But he won't allow me to . Please help.
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    Apr 10, 2012, 10:22 AM
    He won't allow you to? How is he making you? Just walk away, if he comes call the police, not very difficult to do.
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    Apr 10, 2012, 06:49 PM
    He always becomes so nice and change for about a week and then I fall back into his trap. I just don't want to leave him and end up in a worst situation
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    Apr 10, 2012, 08:17 PM
    So don't have any contact with him after you break up so who cares and you won't know he is being nice.
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    Apr 10, 2012, 10:16 PM
    Boys are olways convincing in nature. It's better to broke up if this relation is being a jail for you . Get out of it and don't keep any contact with him. It's difficult but I think you should do it.
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    Apr 14, 2012, 10:25 PM
    What's worse than being with a lying, controlling cheater? Since you know this is a trap for you then avoid it by avoiding him, and call the cops if he doesn't get it, or your male friends, or family.

    When you allow bad behavior, you will surely get it.
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