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    hopelesslove Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 9, 2012, 10:30 AM
    I can't get over my ex.. 3 years now.
    We dated three times and I ended it the last time.
    I don't know why I can't get over him. The second time we dated, he stopped talking to me, never texted me, ignored my existence and when he DID text me it was to say he met a new girl... I know I'm really stupid for not breaking up with him then, but the first time we dated (during the summer) it was literally the best summer of my life. He made the months when he ignored me the most miserable time I've ever experienced.
    He broke up with me soon after, then regretted it and asked if I would take him back the next day. Of course, me being the lovestruck fool, I said yes.
    And if you're wondering, we did fight a lot during our time together, mostly because I used to be really jealous about him and his other girls. I got over that phase, though.
    The last time we dated, I ended it because he was flirting with another girl. She even said that she liked him WHILE we were dating, and got her friend to ask him if he loved me (to which he said "That is an invalid question"... ) and if he would date her if he and I weren't dating. He said maybe.
    I found out and I broke up with him because I loved him and if he didn't love me, then there was no point in dating. I wanted him to be happy, don't even ask me why because I don't know why. It made my heart break, to say the least, when they started dating three days later.
    He's dating someone new now while I haven't moved on. It's obvious he has and I KNOW I need to too. I try as hard as I can, but I know I still love him in the back of my head.
    We haven't talked since May 2011 and it makes me sad because he was my best friend before we started dating. Guess love ruins friendships, huh?
    3 years of loving him, including the time we weren't together, and it feels hopeless to try and move on anymore. What do you think?
    Oh, young love. Hahaha
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    Apr 9, 2012, 06:57 PM
    Doesn't sound like love, more like boredom or obsession, or a combination of both. Move on, find someone who actually notices you.
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    Apr 10, 2012, 05:10 AM
    Sorry couldn't read the whole, but what I would suggest is that you seem to have had too much of the guy, best would be to find someone else and try dating someone new. You may get a better idea.
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