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    BroomeGirl Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 6, 2012, 04:41 AM
    Does he hate me?
    So, I really like this guy. We've dated each other about 4 times and 3 out of 4 times I dumped him. I love him and I can't be without him but when he's not around I started to doubt his love. Then I went on tumblr and wrote some things about how I like being single and I guess it must have sounded really mean! The thing is he now has a new girlfriend and he seems so happy with her. I don't want him to be with her but they look really good together. It's breaking my heart every time I see him post a status about her. I'm trying to be happy for him but I just don't know how to be. I think that he hates me, I mean I deserve it - I was REALLY mean because I thought that I wasn't good enough for him and that since I wasn't good enough I had to be something else and is my fall back response. What do I do?
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    Apr 6, 2012, 09:48 AM
    If you truly love him, just let him know. If he doesn't love you back, then it wasn't meant to be. However, he has no reason to hate you. And if you're really that curious about it, then just ask him. You've got nothing to lose that you already don't have. And who knows, maybe you'll gain something.
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    Apr 6, 2012, 10:48 AM
    You "dumped" him three times, and he is now happy with someone else, so move on and learn from your mistakes.

    Stop looking at his Facebook, unfriend him and move on.
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    Apr 6, 2012, 02:04 PM
    Go no contact, erase him from everything so that you don't see him with anyone else, and move on.
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    Apr 7, 2012, 01:26 AM
    Thank you all so much! You're right I just have to try and move on with my life. It's best for everyone and if he's happy then good for him. I don't want to ruin his relationship with his new girlfriend so I'll just try and move on :')
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    Apr 8, 2012, 04:09 PM
    Stop torturing yourself by staying off his social networking sites.
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