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    troubledjenny Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 8, 2012, 10:19 AM
    Fiancé ignores me!
    My fiancé is 32 and I'm 26. We started dating in 2010, all was well until last year September when he cheated with his baby mom. He acted as if I didn't exist, and in November he begged for a another chance, promise to behave, didn't know what had gotten to him. Of course I gave him. We went on fine. Beginning of February this year he started ignoring me. It will go on for 5-6 days and then he will call asking how I am, or have I seen something that belongs to him, when we meet we will be on top of the world. But as soon as we part it like I don't exist in his world.

    At times he doesn't know when he passess me on the road. He write all sort of things on his BBM status "no women no cry", and on Facebook he writes searching for a new gal to keep him busy as winter is approching. We haven't spoken in 10 days for no reasons, and I grew tired of being the one to start a conversation with him when he is the one who had issues.

    The worse part we use to see each other as he stays down the road, and pregnant (he has 3 kids1 from his ex-fiance, 2 from a girlfriends). Should I stay with him?
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    Apr 8, 2012, 03:25 PM
    NO!! He has enough kids, exes, and ex fiancés, and girl friends. You are lost in such a crowd.
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    Apr 8, 2012, 03:28 PM
    No of course not, he is already gone, I have no idea why you said "of course" you gave him a chance, the of course should have been no he was gone. He will be thinking he can see any of the babies momma's anytime he wants, and have you at home when he gets tired of traveling around.
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    Apr 8, 2012, 03:39 PM
    Yeah, he's done with you except for those times when you meet up and "are on top of the world"... in which case he is just using you.

    Fiancé? Tell him to get lost.
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    Apr 8, 2012, 11:43 PM
    He drives pass as if everything is normal in his life,maybe it is I just don't have a clue, since we not talking I have dicided to keep things this way 4 ever,but I just wonder do I have to ask him to pay for the things that my insurance won't pay,or do I just let him be the looser that he is,
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    Apr 8, 2012, 11:53 PM
    Pay things your insurance won't pay? What is that about?
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    Apr 8, 2012, 11:55 PM
    I'm expecting
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    Apr 9, 2012, 12:00 AM
    You file for child support/maintenance regardless of whether you stay together.
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    Apr 9, 2012, 12:09 AM
    Honestly @ the back of my mind I knew we weren't going to last,guess it was just dt spark of hope,(I mean after we got back again in nov)guess I have to face reality now,and be in charge of my life, the sad part part is that I was on a pill because I didn't think we were ready for a kid(4 1yr)and @ work there were this herbal drops that helps with metabolisim rate I took them ,not knowing there are contraindicated,so I have 2 deal with the cons.. no matter what,I will file him, but won't nag a lot someday he can see he is a looser some day, thanks guys
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