[Sam.Harrod]

I need help! I don't know what to do about my boyfriend, I'm really concerned about him. We've been together for 2 years and we both love each other, we're both in our 20's he's 22 and I'm 21. You'd think couples our age will have a healthy sex life but NO we don't!

In the first year everything was fine we both had high sex drives and we didn't have any complaints as we both were open to new things. The problems started in the second year of our relationship he just didn't want sex anymore, in the first few months I didn't think much of it at the time as I thought it was because he was stressed, 6 months later he still didn't want it so I thought he was cheating on me but no he wasn't.

1 year later I thought it was me but he kept telling me it's not me and that he's just busy as he lives a good 2-3 hours away from me. It's now 1 year and 4 months since we last had sex and I've been thinking I've done something wrong but the other day he asked me to go onto his email address and do something for him, I went on and found a receipt for Viagra! I don't know how to approach him about it I'm really concerned.

I tried to talk dirty with him today and he just ignored me completely! What do I? Help? I don't want to approach him and make him feel like I'm attacking him.

[talaniman]

I don't say this often, but you have every right to ask him about the viagra receipt, because he told you to look at his emails. You have a lot of talking to do, and NOT about sex. He needs to explain why its not you, but him. How is it HIM? Ask him!

No communications, No relatiionship!