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    casywhite Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 5, 2012, 06:19 PM
    I love an older guy!
    Ok I love this guy, and I've known him for 2 years now. I fell in love with him, and he's in love with me, and we are together. But he's 21 and I'm 12. And we have done nothing sexual besides french kissing and holding hands, and no one knows about us, but I really do love him, please help!
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    Apr 5, 2012, 06:33 PM
    Love or not tell your parents immediately because this guy is a pedophile. NEVER trust someone that asks you to keep a secret from your parents.
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    Apr 5, 2012, 06:34 PM
    Please help? What kind of help are you expecting? Do you think everyone here will give you suggestions on how to sneak around with this pig? The guy is a pedophile. What could he possibly have in common with a 12 year old to be "in love" with her? A 21 year old that is with a 12 year old should be in jail.

    No one knows about you 2, huh? Let me guess why... because you know your parents would flip and because he knows he would be in jail.

    At age 12, you really don't know love. You may think you do, but you're wrong. You need to break up with him and tell your parents.
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    Apr 6, 2012, 12:33 AM
    You need to tell your parents about this pig. He is a pedophile who is grooming you. You need to stay away from him
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    Apr 7, 2012, 05:52 AM
    Please tell your parents. This relationship is very inappropriate. Also this man is eventually going to want and ask for more than just kisses. French kissing a child is very wrong for an adult. This man has broken the law.
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    Apr 7, 2012, 06:04 AM
    I can't stress this enough, this guy is a PEDOPHILE. He is a predator and sick! Either he will dump you as you get older or will try sometime more intimate.

    You need to tell your parents NOW! So this guy can't prey on anyone else.
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