[Cloudyschi]

Ok so I'm 12 almost 13 and my friends always pick on me! I get really depressed sometimes and they say we say it because were jealous of you... I truly think I'm not bad looking, but their always on my case about whether it's about my lips (the top one is kind of thin but I've seen thinner) and they say "You don't have a top lip" Or they call me a slut or floozies and stuff... But I'm not the one taking slutty duck face selfies! And I just called my friend up and I asked her if she wanted to go to the gym tomorrow and then I asked what she was going to wear and she said short shorts and a tank top and I said I'm going to wear my booty shorts and a work out shirt (Booty shorts are like those spandex dance shorts... I'm a dancer... But it's not outrageous to have them) and she's like WOW you're such a slut so I say "Their athletic shorts... Not that you would know" (She doesn't play any sports or anything).

So whatever we're going to the gym tomorrow... But then that one girl she's always pointing out flaws and she's always negative like "oh I hate this song" and she's so mean to her parents like her mom is so nice and she's liken her older 40s so she is always like "mom you're a fat geezer" and I'm like stop being so bean to your mom!. And she doesn't say anything unless it's negative and never complements people and is so focused on peoples flaws! I think it's because she's not very good looking and she knows it! But she always calls me a slut even is were wearing the same thing because I have longer legs, skirts, shorts and dresses look shorter on me! And all of them are shorter than me! SO they ALWAYS CALL ME A SLUT!! I don't think they even know the full meaning of a slut (they do haha) like I don't wear revealing clothes! And I don't put myself out there! I don't sleep around FOR GOODNESS SAKES PEOPLE I'M 12!! I haven't even had a real boyfriend... I do like an older guy though he's a year and 11 months almost exactly older so you it's not that bad! But he is my one friend's brother...

I do own a push up bra or 2 but so do they! And it's hard to find one that's not and it's not like it's a HUGE one! And I don't wear SUPER low cut shirts and I think that only once have I gotten in trouble at school for having my shorts being shorter than my fingertips! But everyone does! And no one wants to wear Bermuda short! So what do I say oh you an she does this thing where she holds out her hand and at her thumb she says slut, then on her next finger slut then her middle finger like pretty, and then slut on the other two fingers and then she'll say sit down... (she would say my name) and give me the finger so pretty much she was saying f off ugly slut! So you but I know they actually do love me and she does pick on my other friend too about her receding hairline or how she has the same nose as her dog but those things are NOT as hurtful as being called a slut... If I were a slut I would get hit with a stick from my sister and her friends (they keep me in line)! I am like one of those I don't want to say proper rich kids because I'm not rich but I'm one of those... Like country club kids... And my one friend who doesn't have much um... Well boobs, the one girl always bugs her about it and stuff like how she's under developed... But she's absolutely gorgeous! And so is my other friend but this one girl it's like she don't belong, she's mean and gossipy and negative and even a bit well not gorgeous (I'm so sick of her calling me a slut... Usually I don't talk about people like this) and well I'm hanging out with her tomorrow with this other girl too who I'm not exactly friends with but she wanted to come... So well she will call me a slut I know it so what do I say to her?

I need help with this quick!

Thanks so much!

[Fr_Chuck]

Real friends don't call each other names, insult each other and hurt each other feelings,

I think it is time to consider new friends.

[Cloudyschi]

Real friends don't call each other names, insult each other and hurt each other feelings,

I think it is time to consider new friends.

OH no no no no... Teen girls do this all of them do... I've been through that were I've found new friends... and these girls are the nicest ones I've met... She just needs a good strong Shut up I think... but I don't know when to do that or what exactly to say!

[Cloudyschi]

OH no no no no... Teen girls do this all of them do... I've been through that were I've found new friends... and these girls are the nicest ones I've met... She just needs a good strong Shut up I think... but I don't know when to do that or what exactly to say!

Like, I just really need other teen girls to help me on this one...

[Homegirl 50]

Why are you hanging out with this girl? Is she the only girl in school?

[Cloudyschi]

She's still really nice and a really good friend she's just been so negative that's it

[Homegirl 50]

I don't call her behavior as one being a good friend.
Just tell her "back off! If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything."