[spunkymonkey213]

Hello it's spunkymonkey again and this time I'm having troubles with my friend. So he is in my second period class and will always try to be stupidly funny, like he'll just blurt out penis in the middle of class and the when no one laughs he'll say " you guys are so immature". Then I'll say " dude were all mature here." the he will say " ok any one who tries to kid them selfs that they are as mature as adults are r tarded." he can be a dou***** , but he's a good friend. So what should I do to try and make him not have a man period sometimes?

[J_9]

Best thing to do is to ignore him. If he isn't getting any attention from his actions he will stop acting like this.

People like this crave attention whether it be good or bad. If people would just ignore him he will get the idea.

[spunkymonkey213]

Ok thanks I just don't have many friends and I hate It when I lose one

[MsKatieJareau]

It seems to me that all he really craves for is attention. It is most likely that he isn't getting a lot from home. I'm glad to hear that you want to help your friend out instead of getting angry at him, now that's a true sign of maturity.

Now, you're going to have to be very careful when dealing with someone who has that short of a temper. You're going to need to speak very slowly to try to make him understand that you do not want him to embarrass himself by acting like a child in class. And the reason why people ignore him is that shouting out "penis" in class is generally rude and quite frankly, a disgusting behavior.

I hope your friend understands.

[spunkymonkey213]

Yes thank you but you have to understand that he grew up in the ghetto where we live an got the crap bullied out of him. So it is just his instinct to try to be like that. I've tried to get him to talk to a counsler about it but he won't do it.

[spunkymonkey213]

I only hope I can help him

[spunkymonkey213]

Mskatiejareau thanks for the help and the compliment I am appreciative of that :)