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jamienicolex3 · Mar 28, 2012, 07:00 AM

Hi, I am 16 years old. I wasn't the smartest girl 3 years ago. Past three years I mistakenly had sex with 8 and the 9th makes my current boyfriend right now. I got checked after I cheated on my boyfriend with 2 guys it came clear. Than I mistakenly cheated again with a different one (I already had sexual intercourse with two of the three guys) when I had to go to the hospital I asked to have a test run . My mother says that everything came back negative but she isn't the most honest person. Lately specifically right after I wore a latex spandex lace kind of thong. Now I've been experienceing itching, bumps, a very weird feeling in my vagina almost like a uti feeling but not in my stomach an di can pee and it doesn't burn. My bagina is very senative I've gotten 5 or 6 yeast infections I believe over the course of my life. And a couple of uti I think. I never gotten dianoised for these things but the symptoms fit the description. I am worried I have a std I told my father I want to get check out today but it might be three weeks until I hear back. I need help!

alkalineangel · Mar 28, 2012, 07:21 AM

I really don't understand "mistaken sex" but, OK. No one here is going to be able to tell you if you have an STD or not. We can tell you that a person who has multiple partners over a short period and does not use proper protection is very likely to acquire an STD. I suggest you have the test and wait the period for the results. In the meantime, no unprotected sex or no sex at all until you know for sure you are clean. This is so you don't go adding to the problem by spreading the love to anyone else. Also might I add that at 16, 8-9 partners is far too many and you should really consider abstaining until you are mature enough to protect yourself and others from the consequences of sex. STDs and Babies are nothing a 16 year old should have to or want to deal with. And both are with you for the rest of your life, both could damage the quality of life or even shorten the life you have left. Good luck.

Fr_Chuck · Mar 28, 2012, 07:25 AM

No lectures ( although you need them)

Yes it could be, sometimes tests taken too soon will show negative, some STD take time to show up. At 16 you may go to Planned Parenthood or your local health clinic and get your own test without mom there. Also you can go to your doctor and have the right to be seen without mom in the room and talk to the doctor in private about your tests.

jamienicolex3 · Mar 28, 2012, 07:29 AM

Well a couple years ago I had a drunken period and I would drink every single day and just do whatever whenever it wasn't the safest thing I know but I know now how to be. And I understand everything. When I got tested nothing showed up , I was a bit confused because after I wore the odd thong that keep riding up symptoms started to happen. And when I cheated on my boyfriend the recent time was December 31. And the other times before that it was July 23 I believe and July 25 . All three I was drunk. I realize that I shouldn't drink excessivly. But thanks for the advice. But wouldn't symtptoms would have come up earlier? And I got check after the July episode and after January at a hospital.

alkalineangel · Mar 28, 2012, 07:43 AM

no... people can have STDs for years and never know it. It could be the thong, but it might not. Get tested.

Cat1864 · Mar 28, 2012, 08:02 AM

Jamie, I know this isn't the advice you asking for, but for your health and safety I am going to give it.

Stop drinking. You are putting yourself in a dangerous position when you do. Ask for help in stopping if you feel like you can't quit on your own. If you can cheat on your boyfriend multiple times, then you are also opening yourself up to being raped or used by others who do not have your safety in mind.

This time may be a reaction to something in the thong, the material, what it has been washed in, etc. Next time may be a disease.

Aurora_Bell · Mar 28, 2012, 08:10 AM

It could be irritation from the "weird thong thing" or it could be an STI, you definitely need to get checked to know for sure.

Alty · Mar 28, 2012, 03:34 PM

Doctor time, and therapist time. I know you don't want to hear it, but your behavior suggest that therapy would be a great benefit.

You need to stop doing what you're doing. You're not only too young to be having sex, especially with the number of partners you've already had, but you're way too young to be drinking too.

You need help. That's the best advice we can give you.