[llama_candy96]

Ok so I have been with this completely amazing guy
I'm 15
Few days ago we had sex I was 3 days off my period and no we did not use any contraception we also did it many times, I have been feeling sick, extra tired and so grumpy,
I want to know, could I be pregnant, what do I do and how do I tell my parents

[Curlyben]

The ONLY way to tell would be a test, either Home or Doctor.

[tickle]

Very rarely do pregnancy symptoms appear within 3 days of having sex. How do you tell your parents? Well make every sure you are before you do otherwise a false alarm will be devastating to you and them. And if you are not 'this time', do you and he a big favour and use precautions because at 15 you are not emotionally or financially able to care for a newborn.

[ScottGem]

Any time you have penile insertion you run the risk of pregnancy. How can you not know this? Using contraception properly will reduce the risk, but not eliminate it.

While it is unlikely that you are experiencing pregnancy symptoms so soon, that still doesn't mean you aren't pregnant. The only way to tell is to wait until a week or so after you miss your period and take a HPT.

No one should be engaging in sexual intercourse until they are fully prepared to have a child. This guy doesn't sound so "completely amazing" if he has sex with a 15 year old. Sounds pretty dumb or exploitative to me.

[Fr_Chuck]

Women can get pregnant any time, even during their periods, so of course you could be pregnant. It is rare that you would have any sign of it after 3 days. Most likely the flu or just getting sick.

But you have this amazing guy, go with you to your parents and explain that you two have been having sex and you are pregnant. Hope the age of consent is 15 ( not in most places) and hope they don't send him to jail for having sex with you.

[DoulaLC]

llama_candy96,

You'll need to wait until you would expect your next period and see if it shows up or not. If not, try a pregnancy test. Make sure that you follow the directions carefully.

If it turns out that you are pregnant, tell your parents together with your boyfriend. Do so right away as you will only worry about it more if you wait and you would need to make decisions about prenatal care. Hopefully they already know him and like him. Expect them to be upset and disappointed. Acknowledge that you made a mistake and now are ready to take responsibility for your actions. How old is your boyfriend? There is the chance that he could have some legal trouble if he is much older than you. Decide what you would do about being pregnant... adoption, abortion, or keeping the baby.

If you aren't pregnant, consider yourself lucky and be smart about what you are doing. Ideally you will stop having sex until you are in a position to be able to have and raise a child. Do Not let your boyfriend persuade you otherwise. If he tries to talk you into it, he is thinking of himself and not you. At fifteen, you are certainly not ready physically (you have a greater chance of health problems when pregnant so young), emotionally, or financially to have a child.

If you make the choice to continue having sex, although unwise it is your decision, at least protect yourself to lessen the chances of an unplanned pregnancy. Your boyfriend should wear a condom every single time, no exceptions, and you should also be using a form of birth control. Remember, pregnancy can, and does, still happen even when birth control is used.

If he refuses to use a condom, or threatens to dump you if you won't have sex, he is not as amazing as you think. Want to know how amazing he really is? Put him to the test and tell him that you decided you aren't ready for sex and the responsibilities that go with it. See what his response is.

A truly amazing boyfriend would put your welfare and future ahead of his desires.

Consider this: no sex, no chance of unplanned pregnancy (or disease), no need to worry about how to tell your parents.