[Hungerpains]

My best friend is going out with my Ex-Boyfriend. The thing is I still have feelings for him. I had no idea that my friend even liked him! Just less than a month ago I was going out with this guy and she showed 0 interest in him!It all happened pretty fast, like one day out of nowhere he breaks up with me saying he wants to be friends. Yeah sure friends.. So my friend is helping me through it and everything when a few weeks later she tells me out of nowhere he asked her out.

Truthfully it hurt hearing that her moved on so fast. I mean I went out with one of his friends for all of spring break then I broke up with him but she's my best friend and they used to text when I was going out with him! I told her she should say yes because apparently she also liked him and I wanted to be a good friend. They only reason they became friends in the first place was because of me. He only knew her because she was my best friend. I regret giving her his number because while we where going out she used to text him all the time and it didn't seem like much to me but I wonder how long she's liked him and how long he's like her. I want to be happy and supportive for her but its like reliving my relationship with him only this time I'm not there it's her instead and it hurts. A lot.

[talaniman]

I would imagine he felt the same way when you went with his friend, but leave this alone, because I think you are a teen, and you will having many chances to go with many guys so let her have her fun, while you move on.

Hey it was over any way so don't trip over the small stuff. Have your own fun.

[grammadidi]

Should you be happy for her?? No, not exactly! If I were you I would be open and honest with her about your feelings. Tell her that you want to be supportive but it hurts. However, if she wants a guy that will go out with his ex-girlfriend's best friend, she's welcome to it. Then, as talaniman said, move on, have fun and don't sweat the small stuff! You are young and there will be many more relationships and learning experiences before you find a lasting, mature love.

Hugs, Didi

[confusedchild8]

I think you should stop calling that girl your friend. She has no right to do what she did, she has no respect for you and neither does your ex, I think you should cut them both out of your life.