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scottpar · Feb 26, 2012, 04:26 PM

Hi
My girlfriend of almost two years broke up with me she told me she did not love me enough to see a future together, we had a break about 4 months ago for the same reason, she told me I did not offer her enough security.
She always told me she had never met anyone who loved cared and adored her as much as me and I was the best guy she had ever met!
There was also an issue with commitment, for example when her flatmate moved out I proposed we move in together seeing as we were going out for about a year and a half I was ready to get more serious and take things forward, but she was not interested and decided to move her male friend in instead, for some reason because of her lack of commitment throughout our relationship it made me have trust issues with her because I felt she was still looking for something better! Even though deep down I did trust her and told her that!
I feel really confused by this and don't agree with the reasons for her breaking up with me!
Any help or advice would be appreciated,
Thanks

odinn7 · Feb 26, 2012, 05:00 PM

You want help and advice? Honestly... walk away and don't look back. You're just going to wind up beating yourself up over this if you keep thinking of ways to get her back with you. From what you say, it sounds like you are much better off without her. Take some time for yourself, do some things with friends and family, and soon enough, someone will come along that will be much better for you.

talaniman · Feb 27, 2012, 01:54 PM

Talaniman Rule - When you get dumped disappear from their life.

Especially when she chooses a male friend over you, to live with.

seldaadam · Mar 21, 2012, 03:05 PM

Write her a letter and tell her your feelings and how you feel about her this letter will help you and give the letter to her hand hope this works good luck.

mmresd · Mar 21, 2012, 03:16 PM

First of all, what you say about trust is completely wrong, either you trust her or you don't, you are not supposed to blame your trust issues on her because she said she didn't want to live with you, to most people, that is a BIG step.

Second, it is OK to feel confused, that is a VERY common feeling to have after receiving rejection through a break up.

Lastly, the reason as to why she broke up with you, or whether you agree with it or not is irrelevant. What you need to do is respect her decision, and leave. Go NO contact and keep yourself busy, you will get over her as the time passes by.