[geethg]

I am 2 years married girl.. My husband not showing interest on me.. We are participating weekly once in sex..
To be frankly I have more sexual feelings.. I am unable to tell him that.. He is making me jealous by seeing other girls also.. How to impress him in all the way.. Mentally and physically?

[Cat1864]

Is this an arranged or love marriage? Either way, being a husband does not include acting like he is single and 'seeing' other women. What does he believe his husbandly duties are?

As difficult as it might seem, you need to sit down and talk to him. He should be putting in as much energy into the marriage as you are. Both of you need to communicate about your needs with each other. It means you need to be open with him. Tell him what you want and need.

Quite frankly, if he is disrespecting you and your marriage by 'seeing' other women, then I don't think you can do anything to 'impress' him. You might think about marriage counseling instead.

Do you have anywhere else to go if he continues his current behavior? Is there a chance he might consider leaving you for one of these women?

[vanivijay]

Hi dear,
I understand your feelings.. The first thing you might do is to find out his likes and dislikes
For u. This is a little difficult if he doesn't speak to you frankly. Don't worry, watch his reactions on different situations closely, you can make out.
Men seeing other girls is quite natural. As long as it is only seeing, you need not worry, but keep a check on his contacts. Change your appearance - the way you dress-up once in three months.
Take him for shopping and allow him to make choices for u. Give him surprises on special occasions like his birthday, your wedding anniversary etc.
Above all, interact with him very well. Talk to him about everything you want to. Be frank. Respect all his family members.
You may notice changes in him gradually. Never lose hope. No couple in this world is cent percent compatible !
ALL THE BEST...

Regards,
Vani