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Mikeemotionless · Mar 16, 2012, 04:11 PM

I have this amazing, beautiful girlfriend. I met her a few months after school started. We've been together ever since. Before I met her I was always depressed and not very happy in school. But when I met her, I was always happy and looking forward to school. Every day we'd hold hands in the hallways and just be with each other. Well my girlfriend's mom's boyfriend kicked them out of his house. So they had to move to a town that's 30-40 minutes from here. Her mom's going to try to find a place to live back over here but it's going to take about 2 months (the rest of the school year tntil summer). Now she doesn't live here and doesn't go to my school. I've been crying for hours everyday wishing this never happened. In school I'm going to be lonely again. In the hallways I'm going to cry wishing she was there holding my hand like we always did. I'm not going to be able to consetrate in class knowing I can't see her for a while. She changed my life and made me a better person. Now I'm going to wake up knowing I can't see her. We're still together. We're going to try to visit each other whenever we can, but that probably can't happen for a while. This is going to be 2 months of torture without her. I'm going to cry everyday. And I don't want to cry, I'm tired of crying. I just want to see my girlfriend like I always did.

kjohnsid · Mar 16, 2012, 04:33 PM

Do you really believe you are going to be with her forever? You sound in love and if that is truly the case, then is two months really that bad when you consider being able to have her the rest of your life? Think about how amazing it will be when you two come back together. Me and my fiancé have a similar problem and whenever we did get to see each other we made sure to make our time count. Absence really does make the heart grow fonder. We are now living together and have been together for 4 years.

Mikeemotionless · Mar 16, 2012, 06:30 PM

Thank you. Realizing what you said does help. It means a lot.

DoulaLC · Mar 16, 2012, 06:41 PM

Hi Mikeemotionless,

With just a 30-40 minutes distance, hopefully you will be able to meet up several times. Perhaps even meet half way, and both of you won't have far to go.

As was said, if you want it to work, it can. Send e-mail, text messages, chat online, send cards to each other in the post, talk on the phone regularly. All of those will help to keep you feeling connected and the two months will fly by before you know it.

My husband and I were an ocean apart when we first met... it can work if you both want it to... :)

Fr_Chuck · Mar 16, 2012, 06:50 PM

Yes, your parents take you to see her or hers comes to let her see you.
Next internet chats at night, text message and more.

Next sorry but you need to find and get control of your emotions, you have some serious issues. The thing is, we do not find our personal happiness from a person, we need to find and be happy with who we are.