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    mailmekv Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 15, 2012, 07:44 AM
    Unable to penetrate
    Hi,
    We are married for a few years.. the favourite posture is me over her, with left leg over hers and my right leg between her legs.

    We have adequate foreplay but what is happening, I am not penetrating - it seems that I just enter and move sideways or around the entrance... not really going in.

    One way around is that I move in with my both legs below hers.. but then the Vagina seems to be way down.. and I am unable to exert the pressure to move in ( I can do that when I put my left leg over hers).

    Any tips and time is running out for us, in terms of having a child
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    Curlyben Posts: 18,514, Reputation: 1860
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    Mar 15, 2012, 07:57 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by mailmekv View Post
    Any tips and time is running out for us, in terms of having a child
    Change position then if it's causing THAT much of an issue, it's not a contortionist tryout after all..
    There's a huge range of alternative to try out there and sometimes the simplest is the best..
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    Mar 15, 2012, 08:27 AM
    Has this always been an issue or is this a recently developing problem? Are there major differences in height and/or weight between you or physical obstacles that limits your options?

    Why is time running out for you to have a child? Does your wife want a child or is she concerned about becoming pregnant?

    Are you certain that 'foreplay' is 'adequate' for your wife? For females, arousal begins long before taking your clothes off.

    Is that a good position for her? It doesn't sound like it. Along with trying other positions, you might try using a pillow or folded towel to raise her hips.
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    Mar 15, 2012, 10:25 AM
    Have you considered her over you? It changes the angle a good bit.
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    Mar 16, 2012, 05:43 PM
    Let me get this right... you've been married a couple of years and you have NEVER been able to penitrate her? Yet you have a favorite position? Sorry but reading this thread that's what I see.

    If that's correct... why haven't you been to see a gynecologist about it?

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