[Krs]

My husband recvd a text message from a friend of ours saying that she had a dream about him, he asked what about, and she said nothing, all good, yummm yummm!!

Is that OK?

Why would she message him in the first place to say so? Why make a point of it... Unless there's a hidden meaning!

[Bluerose]

Sounds to me like she is flirting with him and needs to be put in her place.

[Wildcat21]

TOTALLY inappropriate. She's making advances on your husband. He needs to tell her to knock it off.

TOTALLY inappropriate. She's making advances on your husband. He needs to tell her to knock it off.

[robynhgl]

The good news... he told you. (Just guessing since you know the message was sent and his reaction to it.) Got to love a man who brings it home.

The bad news... she's hitting on him. Whether she says it's a joke or whatever... she's fishing. Lucky you, he didn't bite!

I'd say something to her, I wouldn't come off as mad or jealous--that only gives her the impression that you're threatened by her. I'd make it seem like you and your man took it as a joke. 'So you had a 'yummy' dream about XXX, too bad his 'bakery' only get's cookin' for me! *wink*'... ' If she has any sense, she'll feel a little embarrassed and she'll know you and your hubby have a relationship that's based upon trust and loyalty. If it weren't he'd never have told you.

[rol]

Yeah exactly roby , totally agree!!
Great he told you, what a b***
Give that response to her she will be mortified!!

[Krs]

Well he said this happened a few months ago!

She lives far away and we don't see her very often anymore!

My husband agrees that its totally inappropriate and wonders what the hell she is playing at!

[NeedKarma]

You could always take it as a compliment - you have a wanted man. :D

[Krs]

Also as we don't see her much, shall I message her or email her?
Or let it go!
But then again I want her to know I know because my man told ME ;)

TOTALLY inappropriate. She's making advances on your husband. He needs to tell her to knock it off.

Well my husbnad told me he told her to call him to ask her what the hell she is playing at, her response on text was - I cant, my husband is home!

[robynhgl]

Well he said this happened a few months ago!

She lives far away and we dont see her very often anymore!

My husband agrees that its totally inappropriate and wonders what the hell she is playing at!

The poor guy! LOL! He told you, even if it did happen a while ago. Some men don't know what to do with stuff like that. He was probably a little freaked out by it, plus he was probably a little freaked out by how you'd react. Face it--depending upon our moods and what day it is... we women can be sort of reactive about things. If he finally told you, he did so because it's bugging him.

If you don't see her often, all the better for you. But I still say let on that you know about it. Actually it's even better that it happened a while ago, you make a joke about it now and it comes off as not being so important that you 'call her out' on it right away.

Give your husband a big kiss and a hug and let him know you love him and you love the fact that you have a good enough relationship that he can tell you thngs... And let him know that you understand why someone else might think he's 'yummy'--because you do too.

[Krs]

As I don't see her often shall I mention it on email or text? As I will use the exact words you said because that's awesome I love it x

I do love him :)
and ill tell him again tonight

[kp2171]

in most circumstances this would be inappropriate. I say most because I do know a couple who joke about things like this with friends and I could easily see either spouse getting something like this from a friend and it not being threatening.

since your husband seems to be upfront about this...

have him text her back, if it ever happens again... he should write her back, giving her YOUR phone number to send messages to.

you sleep with him. Any sultry deeds will be done by you.

=)

[robynhgl]

If you talk to her by e-mail or text do it that way. I'm sure you can figure out a way to 'work it into the conversation'... LOL! Maybe tell her you thought you'd drop a line to say Hi, it's been a while and you and husband 'were just talking about you the other day... we were laughing about that text message you sent him!'

She'll know he told you, that you both thought it was funny... and she'll feel like an idiot.

It's a compliment that your husband is attractive to other women, but more than that--he's got to be a really great guy to have told you something that probably wasn't easy for him to do. Your 'friend', on the other hand... wow, what a jerk--imagine how her husband must feel being married to someone who would do something like that.

[Krs]

So so true
OK will do that first thing tomo morning and I promise ill keep you posted!

THANK U XX

And shall I inform my husband about this email? Or no?

[robynhgl]

Good for you! I'd love to see the look on her face when you do it though!

Motorola Phone: $195.00
Monthly Cell Pmt: $ 49.95
Text message: $ .10
The look on her face when you pull out the rug: PRICELESS! LOL!

If he told you, you should tell him what you did.

By the sound of it--when she did this, he called her to ask her what the heck was going on. Would make me think that he didn't appreciate it much either.

I wouldn't tell my husband to call her and tell her what she did is out of line, makes it look like he got busted and was made to do it. If your husband has a sense of humor he should be cool with it. Guys do like that their women love them enough to get a little ticked at stuff like that too. He knows you appreciate him enough that it bugs you a little.

[momincali]

Just text her back and tell her... "Silly rabbit, text messages are for kids..have you been drinking??"

[kp2171]

or "been there, done that" [with him]

=)

[Wildcat21]

I would say something - like what was advised above.

But she defintely was fishing.

And I love the fact your husband told you.

[Krs]

Thanks wildcat I appreciate what you say about my man especially coming from you being the relationship expert.

I will email her! Hehe LOL

[chuff]

CATFIGHT!!

I just wanted to say how cool it was for you husband to tell you. We men get put down all the time for lying or hiding things and that was not the case there. That is definitely a man who respects you and his relationship.

[Krs]

Well guys, I have mailed her :) used the approach robynhgl said, sort of :- thought id email you to say hi, then popped it into the conversation.. LOL

This was 4 hrs ago, still NO response!!
Mmmmmmm

Still nothing!! I'm soooo curious to read her reply thou!