[HalfEmpty]

We met a month ago and two weeks ago we started dating. We already kiss constantly and she's told me she loves me... But I'm not buying it...

She hangs out with other guys who hug her and hit on her, I'm there of course, but it still really ticks me off

She will text me all day but call me boring as hell

She wanted to make out the day we started dating, a week after we met.

Now I know what you're thinking "slut" but not at all.. We've talked about important stuff together and cried together, but guess what. It's all over frickin texting!

I do love her... A lot... A ton, but I think she says it like I'm temporary, just another soon to be ex.

I'm sick of it being this way, at this pace we're going to burn out and this isn't going to last longer than 6 months at the most...

From what I've told you, does anyone have any advice, anything at all that can help us... Help me to get through this with her?
Thanks...

[DaniCalifornia]

I'm not thinking slut, a typical "slut" would be using you for sex. Some people DO fall in love that quickly. I fell for mine within a month (While he was saying it on the second date, haha!) and we're still going strong.

Sit down and talk to her, ask her where SHE sees the relationship going. Tell her things you're not particularly happy with, and see what she says.

x Dani

[talaniman]

I don't think you both want the same things from a relationship, and I think you are smart enough to see that for yourself. She is having her fun, but you worry of the future. You want to survive, don't get stuck on her so fast, and pay attention, you have MUCH to learn about her.

That's what dating is about, having FUN getting to know someone. See her as a date, NOT as a life partner. And don't wrap your life around a fun date, or get to deep, and serious, and for gosh sakes get rid of the communications through texting. And keep doing what you were doing before you met her. In these ways you will enjoy the short term, and let the long term take care of itself.

If things are boring this soon, maybe you are latching on to a thrill nut, who constantly needs excitement, and a certain kind of attention to be happy. Personally, to be honest, I would have my options a lot more open at this point in time, but that s just me because I believe in,

Talaniman Rule, Date them all. Short, fat, skinny, or tall! 18 to 80, blind cripple, or crazy.

Talaniman Rule, Never give your heart to a stranger, until they have proved they deserve it, and know what to do with it.

Talaniman Rule, Never get stuck on someone thats not as stuck on you.

She thinks short term, and you are thinking long term, and she may be on her third guy, while you are getting over her in 6 months.
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[indya]

Well, both of you want different things from the relationship!

There can be two reasons for a girl to treat a relationship as short term:

1. She just wants a fling before she finds a guy she's really interested in
2. She treats it as short term because she feels/thinks it won't last long(for reason's like insecurity, incompatibility, some future plans that don't involve the partner)

Just, ask her what she wants. It's just been two weeks, have fun! You never know this may last longer than your expectations.