[tiredxx]

We've been dating about six months now, he purposed to me after two months of dating. He says he loves me, he cries for me, but...
He doesn't have a job, he doesn't go school.
I support him in any way, he doesn't even have a car or a cell phone. I got nothing myself, I'm a student who is living off my student loan, but so tired of spending my time, energy and money over him and get nothing in return but nice letters saying how much he is in this and how much he wants me. I get it actions are louder than words. I need help. I gave my ring back to him yesterday.

[chelseabolden]

Lol yes girl you did the right thing for real... in my opinion I see that he was only with you for a free ride and he is a mucher girl there are more men out their set standers for yourself and make sure you stay true to them

[odinn7]

He might care for you like he says but, to be blunt, he's a bum. If he really did care, he wouldn't be hanging on for a free ride... he would be out trying to get a job so you didn't need to support him.

I think you have done the right thing so far... now you just need the strength to move along without him if he can't get job and pull his own weight.