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    Feb 7, 2012, 04:04 AM
    Does he love me ?
    First I'm sorry for my English! I'm really in love with a boy! But I'm so confused! He says to his friend that I'm a crush! And then I see him he act like he's really in love with me! After that my friend ask him does you love her he said no! Then when he's drunk he talked to my friend and said tell her I love her! Then she asked him again he said to her it was a lie ! Then he said that he likes me! And he don't know if he loves me or not and he said that he want to be free he don't want a girlfriend and can't stay for long with one girl! Now he don't want to talk to me! My friends know all the story and they say he's a liar! I don't know what I do! Please help! I want to know what he mean with all this! I'm so confused!
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    Feb 10, 2012, 06:50 PM
    I apologize for being blunt but I really don't know how else to say this other than the cliché that has taken over my generation: he's just not that into you. From what you have said all I am getting is that this guy wants a booty call, nothing complicated and doesn't want to be invested. Kind of sounds like he doesn't want to put in any time and or effort. Your better than that, and deserve much better than that. Take it from someone who has been down that road, it may be fun for awhile, but while you develop feelings for him, he's looking for the next thing.
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    Feb 10, 2012, 07:52 PM
    You are in love with a boy who doesn't have the courage to talk to you, and doesn't have the desire to dedicate any time or effort. Why bother, move on and find somebody who is worth YOUR time.
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    Feb 10, 2012, 11:10 PM
    I wouldn't believe a word he says or trust him at all. So don't be confused by this confused fool, just don't consider him for anything, not even friendship. He ain't the one so ignore him, and his ways and do better for yourself.
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    Feb 26, 2012, 02:30 AM
    Thank you everybody I already did this :) ! I went to a concert and he was there and my ex too he playing guitar in the band ! He didn't talk to me and I didn't care ! He still in love with his ex when I saw him. This is the first time that I didn't feel anything he was dancing with another girl ! And I didn't care now I want to come back to my ex ! I was in love with him! And long time ago I didn't see him ! Now when I looked at him I see all our memories ! He's my crush now ! But I don't know if he want to come back with me ! Anyone can help me to come back to him ?
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    Feb 26, 2012, 02:40 AM
    Can I come back to my ex ?
    I like my ex !
    And I want to to be with him again ! But I don't know how to make him likes me again !
    When I see him I remember all our memories !
    Anyone can give advices ?
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    Feb 26, 2012, 06:21 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by rania1 View Post
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    And I want to to be with him again ! But I don't know how to make him likes me again ! ...
    I rather doubt that you can sue him and get a judge to order him to likes you again.
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    Feb 28, 2012, 12:44 PM
    Awh thank you :) I will try but the problem that we don't talk too much :(
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    Feb 28, 2012, 01:21 PM
    There is a reason he's an EX. While YOU may still like him... he likely doesn't still like you or he'd still be with you. And you can't make someone like you. You learn that in elementary school.

    This is a relationship question, not a law question where this was originally posted.
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    Feb 28, 2012, 01:30 PM
    Moved from Other Law to Relationships
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    Feb 28, 2012, 01:34 PM
    Yeah I know it was a mistake ! I can't change it
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    Feb 29, 2012, 09:04 AM
    You seem to develop crushes, and attractions rather easily, and want to act on them. Now after this one guy, you want the ex back because he was fun, or whatever.

    Enjoy the memories, but don't act on every feeling you have. Crushes fade rather fast as you have seen. Leave the past alone and move forward, not back. He is an ex for a reason right?

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