[darius87]

Well I was with my friend and he was showing me something on his phone and as he flicked through his pics I saw a picture of a girl I was seeing with the girl he was seeing as they are friends I didn't think much until I saw another one with the girl I was seeing ALONE posing.

The funny thing is he didn't have a pic of the girl he was seeing ALONE. I confronted him and he said it was harmless and he was sure I was there when he took the pic which is a complete girl. He then explained the 2 pics the one of my girl and his girl and the one of my girl ALONE was taken on the same night. I found it funny because the picture he has of my girl ALONE she is wearing a different outfit. Around the time as well what was funny was he would keep asking me about how me and my girl are doing which I found funny. I spoke to the girl I was seeing and she said I'm paranoid and they are just pictures. I later discovered he also has her number too. I asked if he had phoned her he said no he got her number off the girl he is seeing for some business to pass on to someone else and he never phoned her but he might have text her.

I confronted her and she said that he phoned her once about a business matter but she never saved her number. I'm really confused what shall I do I really like this girl.

[indya]

Trust her. You are actually acting paranoid. And its just a picture. And girls like being photographed. And what's the whole point of writing ALONE over and over again?

If you don't trust her and keep bugging her on trivial matters, you'll actually be providing her reasons to cheat on you. Just because she's your girlfriend doesn't mean she cannot talk/text and hang out with other males in the society occasionally.

[mmresd]

You need to stop playing detective and get out of the paranoid mentality you are in now. What is it that you are trying to find? How is it going to help you or your relationship? You are barking up the wrong tree here, stop, take a breath, let it go, and keep working on your relationship towards something good.

[scipioafricanus]

Very Simple Man, why did he not inform you ahead of time that he has a pic of your girl on his phone. Also, what is business? When pple are being deceptive, they use words like "business." I use the word business LOL.

Im not necessarily saying there is something going one, but u are not being paranoid. Take it easy, don't pay too much attention because these things generally reveal themselves.

[talaniman]

Your dilemma is not if she is cheating or not, but do you believe her, your friend and his girl friend. Let this go as paranoid, and give them ALL the benefit of a doubt.