[Shanksyx3]

Well my sister has a best friend I think of her as my best friend do she helps me with a lot. But a few years ago there was a lad hanging around with my brother and that lad was with my cousin.. But when they broke up he got with my sisters best friend and I really really liked him :/ the only problem was he was 18 and I was only 13 so I knew nothing would ever happen but as years gone on we've devloped a good friendship with each other :) last year he turned 20 and I turned 15 and he texted me in October I tot nothing of it I tot it was just a friend text but he start giving me a few more x's and it went on and a few kissy faces I got excited and felt happy and then he told me he was mad about me and he just really liked me for hu I was and told me he was beuatiful I told him I liked him and he seemed very happy about it where still texting to this day and when wer alone together we just smile and can't stop starting at each other no one else knows about this so its like our kind of secert :) he's 21 now and I'm still 15 does anyone think I should get him alone and talk to him and see if it can go anywhere or should I just leave it ? Sorry its so long :( haha xo

[indya]

There is a big age gap. But that doesn't mean you cannot date him. Though there might come a point where because of your age difference both of you may land in a situation where both want different things. Just take it slow and see where it goes. I do advice you not to fall too fast, too deep.

[odinn7]

That is a big age gap... an adult and a child. A 21 year old has nothing in common with a 15 year old and should not be doing such things. He is a pedophile if he is interested in getting involved with an underaged girl.

Do your parents know? I have to figure that you're keeping it a secret from them because you know it's wrong. Nothing but trouble will come from this. It is best to back away and not get involved.