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    Feb 22, 2012, 07:26 PM
    Boy advice
    I asked my boyfriend if he would want to hold hands and he said yes but he still hasn't tried to hold my hand I need to know if I should let him make the first move or should I? Help I need answers and FAST!!
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    Feb 22, 2012, 07:31 PM
    How old is this boy?
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    Feb 22, 2012, 10:06 PM
    Subtlety is the key. Brush your hand against is, keep your hand on him momentarily and then withdraw it. If he still doesn't hold your hand try hitting him on head ;)

    On a serious note, he maybe shy, or he might just that be the holding-hands kind of guy.

    There are more things about a relationship than just holding hands.
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    Feb 22, 2012, 10:11 PM
    If he's under 16, he probably hasn't figured it all out yet. Boys mature slower than girls, so he'd rather play basketball with you than hold hands.

    Just matter-of-factly grab his hand while you're walking, but don't do it when you're with his friends because then he will get teased.
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