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    Feb 22, 2012, 11:47 AM
    My boyfriend is so cold to me.. Even through nights... What will I do..
    We are almost two years from now.. My boyfriend is very sweet and lovable, we already have sex, but now he's so cold, its been for a month now, what will I do.. Its horrible..
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    Feb 22, 2012, 12:19 PM
    When did he change? Has anything that you know about changed in the relationship or in his life that might make him feel or act the way he is?

    With what you have said the only advice I can give is to ask him what is wrong. If he won't talk to you, then there is very little you can do other than leave him alone for awhile or walk away from the relationship.

    Any choice you make should be what will be best for you. You should not stay in a relationship when it feels 'horrible'. Staying isn't good for you or anyone else if it is damaging the way you feel about the relationship, him, and, most importantly, yourself.
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    Feb 23, 2012, 12:30 AM
    Communicate with him and tell him how you feel. If he is understanding and tries to fix things then things will get better. If he doesn't, then maybe he has other things in his mind. However, we do need more information to get some idea of what is really going on.
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    Feb 25, 2012, 03:49 PM
    Ask him what's up!! That's how healthy couples deal with their issues, and find out what's on the mind of their partner.

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