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BeachBaby24 · Feb 11, 2012, 11:13 AM

I am having a huge problem here. I wear diapers for emotional comfort, but am completely losing it upstairs over finding someone who is willing to actually put a diaper on me. I have to hide it because I still live with my parents, and they know about my diapers, but I do not let them know that I still wear them secretly. It is driving me crazy, and hurting my heart (like an emotional puzzle piece is missing). I have gone to rates like posting in the "babysitters/nannies" section on Craigslist about this. Please help before I go completely nuts over this.

odinn7 · Feb 11, 2012, 11:21 AM

This isn't a real question, is it?

You say you need them for emotional support but then you can't put them on yourself... why?

You need to hide it because you live with your parents and you claim they know about your diapers... but then in the same sentence you say you don't let them know you still wear them. Well, do they know or not? You can't have it both ways.

Maybe you should see someone about this and seek help before it pushes you too far? Craigslist is not the answer.

How old are you anyway?

BeachBaby24 · Feb 11, 2012, 11:27 AM

Yes it's a real question...

I'm 24, and my parents do know about it. I just hide my diaper wearing, and am uncomfortable of the thought of them finding the diapers. (they have found them in the past) It's just eating away at my heart emotionally.

odinn7 · Feb 11, 2012, 11:40 AM

Thanks for the negative. Sorry... still don't believe it.

But... I guess since you're an "adult" you could move out on your own, then you don't need to worry about your parents.
Or you could simply go to therapy and overcome this need of yours.

mamaof2boys · Feb 11, 2012, 12:24 PM

People do lots of things for comfort. Is it strange or different? Yes. But to say its not true is a bit harsh don't you think? Someone came on here looking for help and already is embarrassed in real life. I'm sure being called a liar at a place they thought they could get help didn't help anything. To the OP I don't have an answer or solution for you. But I do believe you. I have heard of things like this before. I definitely think you need to seek psychological care. You cannot go through a normal adult life wearing diapers just for comfort and the likely hood of finding someone who is OK with this is slim to none.

Fr_Chuck · Feb 11, 2012, 01:34 PM

There are people who really do this, and under craig list you put it under causual encounter because while not sexual it is not a baby sitter. Also you may have to pay for someone to do it, which is more common.

Also you may find someone who is into control and domination over you that will want to treat you like a baby but will want more than just you wearing the diaper.

On the other note, what about professional counseling to find other ways to express your issues.

Next so why don't you move out of your parents house, you are 24 and grown, so move out so you can do any infant desires you want

odinn7 · Feb 11, 2012, 01:48 PM

Originally Posted by mamaof2boys

People do lots of things for comfort. Is it strange or different? Yes. But to say its not true is a bit harsh don't you think?

I know this happens in real life but the points I made in my original answer as to why I don't believe this is a real post still stand.

BeachBaby24 · Feb 11, 2012, 03:39 PM

Lol @odinn7, I know why you think his may be a fake question, but it is something I am struggling with. Yes I have seen numerous therapists, but they don't help one bit. To Fr_chuck, I have posted this on Cl, yet no one takes it serious, and you are 100% right about those dominant woman wanting more. Its just not fair for me. I do not wear them for a sexual reason, yet it has been deemed that everyone who wears diapers "without need" has a fetish. To my knowledge a "fetish" usually entitles to something sexual. This is no fetish for me, but a coping mechanism according to psych minded people. I just do not know what to do anymore. Its like I am obsessed with finding a woman to unleash this onto, but know its not realistic in today's society. Its not fair, all the gay men out there are totally accepted today, but not my "difference". It almost makes me feel like how the gay population felt back in the 70's I guess. Now being gay is totally accepted by many people. Probably this will be like that, in 30 years from today.

Swiss_Ms.B · Feb 16, 2012, 09:09 AM

BB24
What exactly happens to you emotionally when you don't wear diapers? Do you actually pee and poop in them?
You are illusional if you think that your behavior can be compared to being gay. It might be more like someone sucking their thumb, but also with the difference that a thumb sucking person does not have to rely on another person to take care of them.

BeachBaby24 · Feb 16, 2012, 09:51 AM

@Swiss_Ms.B Its not that I "have" to rely on someone asking care of me. I am NOT illusional by comparing this whole thing to being gay. The reason why you are thinking that is because you have been trained in today's society to think I am being "illusional" There are other sexual preferences that deserve the right, just as much as homosexuality to have rights. Its not fair, all the gay people of the world are so loved, and we people who wear diapers have to be looked upon as "creeps" just like gay people were looked upon years ago. It boils my skin to think about this situation.

BeachBaby24 · Feb 16, 2012, 09:52 AM

I am 24 years old @odinn7

odinn7 · Feb 16, 2012, 09:57 AM

Originally Posted by BeachBaby24

@Swiss_Ms.B Its not that I "have" to rely on someone asking care of me. I am NOT illusional by comparing this whole thing to being gay. The reason why you are thinking that is because you have been trained in today's society to think I am being "illusional" There are other sexual prefernces that deserve the right, just as much as homosexuality to have rights. Its not fare, all the gay people of the world are so loved, and us people who wear diapers, have to be looked upon as "creeps" just like gay people were looked upon years ago. It boils my skin to think about this situation.

So now this is a sexual preference as opposed to just being for comfort? You didn't state that earlier.

And yes, you answered me about your age earlier.

Swiss_Ms.B · Feb 16, 2012, 10:07 AM

You wrote that wearing diapers has nothing to do with sexual preferences... and now you say it is a sexual thing! I wish for you that you find someone who also wears diapers or feels the emotional need to change the diapers of an other grown-up, seriously! I do however doubt that your urge has anything to do with genetic disposition. But who am I to say. Try dailydiapers.com

odinn7 · Feb 16, 2012, 10:24 AM

Swiss Ms B is correct... I missed that part...

Originally Posted by BeachBaby24

Its just not fair for me. I do not wear them for a sexual reason,

So not only did you originally state that it was just for comfort but you also made sure to say it was not for sexual reasons. Now you claim that it is for sexual reasons.

Another reason to add as to why I think this question isn't real.