[Comrok]

Hi, I'm in my early teens and I am really stuck. Please help if you can, and please don't hate on me.

So the other day my friend came to visit my house. We had all the usual stuff: giggling and whatever. Finally we got to bed ( I have a double bed) and she asked if I wanted to role play. Of course I had no idea what she was talking about ( for those who don't know: role play is like sex but with your underwear on). She said it was fun, and, being me with my stupidness and all, I agreed to do it. Then she started heavily making out with me and... Well, I won't go on. Anyway afterwards ever since I've felt attracted to her, but she has a boyfriend and was only role playing for fun. Should I be annoyed at her? Should I express my feelings? No hater comments please!

[tonda]

Peer pressure... most teens are curious.. is was something new.. it was exciting... and that may be all it is.. but if she was and is a friend.. you should be able to approach her and discuss your feeling.. who knows you may just be bisexual, something you will have to deal with and be honest with yourself about... or it just may be just an fab,, it will pass... goodluck

[odinn7]

You say she was only role playing and it was just for fun but I don't think she would have carried it that far just as a game. I think she may have some bisexual tendencies and was probably either wanting to explore them with you or maybe she is actually interested in you that way.

Either way, that doesn't really help your situation, does it? I would say maybe you're feeling so attracted to her because of what you just went through. It was a new experience for you and apparently you didn't really dislike the whole thing. Maybe just wait it out a few days and see what happens from it all. Maybe your head will clear a little and you will forget about it all. If you don't, then maybe you are bisexual.

At any rate, you say you are in your early teens so really, you are too young at this point to be exploring these things as you are still developing. You should just hold off having any kind of sexual contact until you are older and more "mature". I don't mean that in a bad way, so please don't take it as such. It will all come to you soon enough and you will avoid the confusion for the most part.

you should avoid this otherwise you will be addicted to it and will become lesbian

And really... that statement is just ridiculous. You will be addicted to it and become lesbian... where did you grow up? You don't just "become" a lesbian.