[Nana13]

I really dn't understand what has happen. But this weekend everything went wrong. My mom called me a disappiontment and she thinks I sleep with everyone. I am 17 and in April I'll be 18. For over a year I have been on a lock down I can't do anything. I have a job and I met a wonderful guy. He makes me so happy he is 19 almost 20. I finally told my parents about him and they flipped out on me. They already think I slept with him at work and everything. I have made mistakes in the past but I would like my parents to forgive me about everything I did in the past. I didn't tell them right away about this boy because I wanted to see had I really felt about him. And once I found out I told them. I have been a very unhappy teen. So I have been looking at divorcing my parents, so I don't have to live with them or anything. I just can't take it anymore. I know they are not physical abuse but they are emotional. What should I do? Please help...

[ballengerb1]

Your patents seem to love but have some trust issues, possibly caused by actions you did earlier in life. They will forgive you but that doesn't mean they will have amnesia. You further fired the trust issues by not telling them about you new friend. They are worried and want to best for you so, yes, it does feel like they are trying to control your life. Chances are you will be on your own in the next 2-3 years. You don't need to divorce your parents, just grow out of living with them.
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