[Hothen]

I met this girl about a month ago. Precisely we've met every day and most of our dates have been long and enjoyable. I didn't know she is a virgin. As I found that she is a virgin although she was OK to have sex, I broke up with her. This relationship is just an experience to me. The person who I lost my virginity to was just foolin' around with me. And I don't want to do the same thing to some one else. I really like her, but I think being a person that one loses his/her virginity to is a big responsibility and most people doesn't take it serious in the way it should be. I just don't want to accept this responsibility, I was hurt so bad by the person who I slept with for the first time and it scares me to hurt her more than now. I am 25 and she is 22. A 22 years person who is still a virgin should has been waiting for some special thing, and I don't want to screw her up.

[Fr_Chuck]

You are correct, Also since no form of birth control is 100 percent, how would you like to have to deal with her after this for the next 20 years over a baby.

[Runnergirl58]

I think you're right to question, and I think it's considerate. I would ask her to make sure it is exactly what she wants. If she still says its okay, then I think it is.