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henners47210 · Feb 13, 2007, 01:02 PM

I really like this girl but 2 shy 2 ask her out:(

manimuth · Feb 13, 2007, 05:26 PM

How old are you?

kristynn · Feb 13, 2007, 07:16 PM

1. If you don't know if she likes you too, start with eye contact. It usually works ;)
If she likes you, she'll hold your gaze.

2. If you already know she likes you but you don't know each other much, show some confidence and simply ask her out for a walk or whatever you want. You really have nothing to lose!
Maybe she expects you to ask her out... If not, she'll think you're not that much interested in her. So make your move now!

--> What holds you back from asking her out? I personally think anyone is capable of overcoming shyness. So do you!

talaniman · Feb 13, 2007, 08:10 PM

Talk to her or watch some one else talk to her, so how shy are you?

valinors_sorrow · Feb 13, 2007, 08:23 PM

I can sympathsize, I was excruciatingly shy around the boys-- not that you can tell that now! LOL

Start by telling her you thought you'd be too shy to talk to her but look at this, here you are talking to her, then smile. She'll probably laugh, or at least smile and think you are making a little flattering joke. And its amazingly freeing how ratting yourself out gets it out of the way. Then ask her if she likes doing things like going to the movies or out to eat, whatever you might have in mind to do with her. This way she gets a little hint that you are going to ask her out and can mentally prepare in the next 2.8 seconds LOL (girls like to do that whether they are going to answer yes or no, okay?) Then... ask her!

If she says no thanks, tell her thank you just the same and walk away CHIN UP. This is where every man leaves behind a little piece of his childhood so stand tall and be proud regardless of her answer, okay? You will live through this moment, I promise.

If she says yes... panic! No wait, LOL just kidding there - have a good time! :p

lgDANCEqueen14 · Feb 14, 2007, 07:40 AM

Originally Posted by henners47210

i really like this girl but 2 shy 2 ask her out:(

OK so I you are too shy to ask the girl out... then I don't think that it will ever work. I know from experience. My boyfriend had liked me for a long time before asking me out. Everyone said that he took so long because he was shy. One day his friends finally pushed him into me and he asked me out. But well my point is if you are too shy to ask her out, then you will be too shy to actually talk to her and have a good relatioship with her. So I think that you should either work up the courage... or just forget about her:) :):)

lgDANCEqueen14 · Feb 14, 2007, 07:41 AM

Originally Posted by manimuth

How old are you?

13
u? :)

mario1 · Feb 24, 2007, 05:24 PM

Just go for it

babydoll365 · Feb 25, 2007, 11:49 AM

Girls like it when guys make first moves. Just ask her.she might like you. If she says she doesn't like you then just try and be friends. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. The good part is that you tried. Good luck. k.i.t.

mike_lock · Feb 27, 2007, 01:07 AM

I can totally relate bro! I have the same problem and the bad part is that I only see her in church once a week! So whenever I fail to talk to her, I have to wait another week to see her and try again.. lolz.
Just go for it dude! I'm giving myself 2 weeks to go for it or ill jump off a building.kidding.