While he may be obsessed with other parts of his life that are important to him, you are obsessed with him. That's the conflict. He is probably just a normal 15 year old, and has many interests, so talking to him about what could change may be the way to go. Such as playing games when with you are with him, as its reasonable to expect full attention, but its not fair to think you will monopolize all his time and he give up the activities that he enjoys.
You talk and make an agreement as to how you will manage your time and express what you want. That's how you deal with conflicts, by talking. If the conflicts are not resolved by talking honestly, then its for you to judge what, and why you hold on to this relationship, and what to do about it.
What's obvious though, is you both have different expectations about what this relationship is all about, which is normal with teens, you don't communicate well, also normal, and the bright eyed shine of new attraction is wearing off, plus you seem to need to be with him, more than he needs to be with you, and maybe you are depending on this relationship to make you happy, more than he is.
But if you expect to be a good couple, learn to talk to each other.
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