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    Feb 4, 2012, 08:06 AM
    One sided love
    I met this guy one year back on net. Slowly we became very good friends. He had a girlfriend who was troubling him and he shared all his feelings me. All the time I suggested him to break up as he was miserable and finally they broke up few months back.

    But he still somewhere feels for that girl and he also considers me as a good friend with whom he can share everything. The problem is now I have started feeling for him. I am very confused I don't know if this is just attraction or I love him. This is making my life miserable. I can't tell him about my feelings as I am afraid he may refuse. I don't know what he actually feels about me, and I can't stand it without talking to him. What's should be done?
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    Feb 4, 2012, 06:12 PM
    For now nothing! Stay just friends and give him a chance to get over his situation, then see what happens but don't mistake a strong friendship for attraction, or love. It could be a temporary crush, which can be as intense as any feeling you ever had, but will fade quickly.
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    Feb 5, 2012, 03:01 AM
    Please please people help me

    And I forgot to mention that we are friends on internet only. We haven't met and nither did we exchanged our phone no as I didn't wanted to share me no on net initially. We have been talking only on chat.
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    Feb 5, 2012, 08:20 AM
    Don't let an on line chat buddy throw your whole life into such desperation. Can't you find other things in life to do for even a little while? Its not healthy to be so obsessed over one person you haven't met. How old are you?
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    Feb 6, 2012, 02:32 PM
    Wow really you feel you are in love with someone you only know from chatting online? Ya are just having feelings for him because you can not have him. Don't throw your life away just because you have a fetish for someone you only know from chatting online. There are plenty of hard working honest good men out there that are trying to find you. If you feel that strongly for this guy tell him, then and inform him that if he does not feel the same! He needs to let you know so you can move on with your life. If he does say no he does not feel the same way, don't get up set, and continue looking he is out there. What ever you do please do not try and rush love cause it may end up very poorly for you hun. When it is time you will truly know. GL
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    Feb 8, 2012, 07:06 AM
    I agree with you all. Thank you

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