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    gunel Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 3, 2012, 07:22 PM
    Can I get him back..
    Its almost 3 years that we broke up. Right now he is in America, and I'm in my native country. I still love him, can't stop thinking of him. I tried to get into a relationship with others but I couldn't. We don't even call each other. What can I do?
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    Feb 3, 2012, 07:42 PM
    Become a complete person within yourself. Learn to be alone and accept it. Learn to enjoy yourself and become the person you want to be.

    Relationships are not about two incomplete people coming together to complete each other. Its about two complete people coming together to.complement each others lives.

    You can't get back a man who doesn't want to be gotten back.
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    Feb 3, 2012, 08:47 PM
    I'm with meyouend on this... its been three years... you should have gotten past this at a minimum two years ago... you really should have started 3 years ago.

    You can't find happiness with another unless you can be happy with yourself.
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    Feb 3, 2012, 08:56 PM
    Yes no you are not getting back with him, that is the first issue, you have to admit it, that he is gone and is not coming back. I would suggest professional counseling since you are way past normal relationship and into a level of obsession.
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    Feb 4, 2012, 11:53 AM
    My bet is a failed relationship recently has triggered old thought, and feelings of happier times. Don't act on those old feelings, they will make things worse with an ex who is doing his thing, as did you, and hasn't called. Let time make things better as you get beyond ALL those old thoughts and feelings no matter where they come from, or why.
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