[Loulou102412]

I know the following will sound so stupid, but I'd really like to know my chances.

My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex for the first time about 5 days ago, and it was hardly sex. He was inside me for about 15 seconds when I started to feel some discomfort, so he pulled out. He said after that, he was bone dry, and so was I, so it made any attempt to get back inside impossible. He never ejaculated, but it was the precum I was worried about.

However, the last time he ejaculated before that was two days before, and he peed about 4-5 times before we had sex. Pee kills leftover sperm cells right? And since there was a little more than 48 hours in between, that's plenty of time to flush out.

So my question is, how unlikely is it that I got pregnant from the possible precum that may have gotten inside me? I've read studies where it was proven that precum contains no sperm, it just picks up leftover sperm. And since the pee washed it all away, would there be ANY chance that I got pregnant? My period is expected in 9 days.

[JudyKayTee]

Pre does contain sperm. He urinated 4 to 5 times before you had sex and that sex was two days earlier? Urine does NOT travel down the same "path" that sperm travels.

Here is some very specific information from a reliable, validated source (http://www.americanpregnancy.org/pre...aqmyths.html):

"Can a woman get pregnant from pre-ejaculation? Pre-ejaculation is the liquid that seeps out of the penis before ejaculation occurs. This fluid is released from the cowpers gland, located at the top of the urethra. The purpose of this fluid is to reduce the acidity in the urethra and provide lubricant for the sperm that is released once ejaculation occurs. Most guys have no control over it and cannot feel it coming out. There is much conflicting data on whether this fluid contains sperm that can result in pregnancy. Some studies have concluded it does contain sperm and others have concluded it does not. Most sources do agree that without definitive confirmation, other precautions should still be taken to protect from pregnancy and STI transmission.

If penetration only happens for a few seconds, can a woman get pregnant? Anytime the penis comes into direct contact with the vaginal area, there is the chance of pregnancy. The probability is extremely low particularly compared to if intercourse with ejaculation took place, but there is still a risk. The transmission of STDs can also happen through any type of skin to skin contact like this.

Can pregnancy occur if a woman and a guy have faux sex or dry sex? (This is when there is no penetration, but there is skin to skin contact of the genital area.) Again, anytime the penis and the vaginal area come into contact, there is the slight risk of pregnancy and a risk for STD transmission. All that needs to happen is for seminal fluid to leak inside the vagina."

If you are having unprotected sex I will assume you are trying to get pregnant so I don't know if this is good news or bad news.

[Fr_Chuck]

First learn how to have sex, you should never try till You the women ( or girl) is not dry, foreplay or proper lube is a must, never ever try and have sex until you are completely ready.

Next forget it appears anything you think you know about sex, all his pee did was stop him from having to pee during sex I guess.

It can cause pregnancy

[smoothy]

I'm with the others... forget everything you thought you knew... and study up on sex ed and how you can get pregnant before you actually do. Whoever taught you that stuff was sadly mistaken..

JudyKayTee and Fr_Chuck covered all the bases pretty well so I won't repeat them.