[spirit86]

My boyfriend and I have been together for five months and already getting jealous of who I talk to and who I want to hang out with, it seems to me, he wants to be the main attention. The only thing is I have two small children that I have before him, so I have to attend to my children more than I would have with him. Another thing, he is very jealous when I have a chat with other men, when I have chat with other men, he has to be right there, he is afraid something might happen and I keep reassuring him, nothing is going to happen, but the only thing is there is a guy who I have been friends with for a few years before I hook up with my boyfriend who is jealous and it gets really frustrating and I am to the point to where I don't know what to do anymore. He gets jealous of my mom's brother (why I don't know) and my friend who I have been friends with, comes around and sees my mom and her husband and I am just to the point to where I want to pull my hair out... question?what should I do? Please Help.


Courtney Smith

[Fr_Chuck]

This is his issue, You explain that if he bothers and tries to control you, that you will leave him. Explain to him that he has to learn to deal with it, or get counseling or most likely your relationship will not continue.

[indya]

It's his issue. He's insecure and controlling. Tell him either to trust you and the relationship or to leave. Do not continue with the current setup. Let him know firmly why his actions and reactions are wrong, and how if he doesn't try to improve the relation will be doomed.