[Super60s1593]

Please Help I need advice :(

I'm 23, and I've been seeing my boyfriend who's 19, for nearly a year now, and we still haven't had sex. We've done a bit of the rest, but when it's come down to it, he goes soft and doesn't seem interested in me, I think he just likes the though of going out with someone older.

He's never had a proper girlfriend, and neither have I (boyfriend). I've talked to him about it and he says everythin was in working order, until he had his accident before I met him a year ago, and he says it's that what's affected him. And yet he won't go to the doctors about it. I think he's just with me for the sake of it. He says he loves me, but I think it's the idea of being in love he likes.

A relationship isn't all about the sex I know, and I don't mind it, just when I see the girls he's been with they've had that closeness to him that I haven't, and it upsets me. He tells me I'm gorgeous all the time but I just don't know what to do. Is he using me, or is he genuine? What should I do? Advice appreciated Thank you.

[Fr_Chuck]

What type of accident was it, and yes it can be a issue.
When ( if you do) masterbate him, does he stay hard?

[talaniman]

What kind of accident?