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anonymous123123 · Jan 14, 2012, 09:46 PM

Well I started talking to this girl in November. At first I didn't like her but after some talks I realize I had feelings for her. The only problem is that she has had a boyfriend for over a year now. She told me that her boyfriend was not paying attention to her now. Later she ask me who did I like? I replied whit you. She said that she also liked me but she liked her boyfriend also so she was confused.

We pretty much kept talking and texting all the time and we grew closer. Last night my school was having this lock in where we stayed there from 9 to 8. Her boyfriend wasn't coming. At first we were just hanging out with another friend but later as the night progressed more friends joined. After about an hour like at 10 she was ignoring me. Talking to everyone else but me. Later at like 2 or 3 she was leaning on all and I mean all the guys shoulders but mine. She was hugging and talking to everyone but me. I talk to her best friend and he told me that she didn't wanted to hurt my feeling by talking to me or leaning or doing things like that. She pretty much flirted with every guy but me. Later that night her best friend told me that she told him that she was planning on breaking up with her boyfriend soon.

She left around 5 and this was the first time since I met her that I was mad at her. Her best friend told me that I should ignore her until she starts talking to me back. Now I'm trying to do that but I just keep thinking about her and I want to message her asking her why she ignore me yesterday but at the same time I am really mad at her and don't want to talk to her at all.

talaniman · Jan 15, 2012, 11:08 AM

Mad at her for what?? For having a lot of friends she gives attention to? For not treating you extra special or something.

You have no reason to be mad, and its nothing but pure jealousy, and a need for attention.

When a girl has a boyfriend, you leave them alone, NOT sneak and try to steal her. You should be mad at yourself, and your own actions.

Dee75 · Jan 20, 2012, 01:46 AM

Let her come to you in her own good time. If she likes you, she will.

politicalincrct · Feb 3, 2012, 12:27 AM

Really? I mean, really? You are being possessive over a female that at this time isn't even your girlfriend... you shouldn't be mad. Also, if she does break up with the other guy and you 2 wind up together think about this - you are already having issues because she is flirtatious... how will you handle it then? Furthermore - would you try to change her into what you want her to be? Sounds like you want the body and not the person.